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There are several red flags. Sure there's the possibility that she did something with the supervisor, anything from a kiss to a romp in the sack.

But you are NEVER going to know. No matter how many times you ask her no matter how much digging you try to do, if you are foolish enough to confront the supervisor and ask him- you will obtain nothing and you will cause more problems with your wife.

You have 2 choices. 1 is to accept that you will never know and maybe even find a way to live with the faint possibility that she cheated. The second option is to accept that you will NEVER be able to live with the unknown, and file for divorce.

There are literally no other options here. Let's face it, infidelity is rampant in marriages. The betrayed spouse oftentimes never finds out about it. It's the risks of getting into a supposedly committed lifelong relationship with another individual who you cannot control, who you cannot monitor 24/7, who has the capacity to cause you infinite grief.

You've got to either give them blind trust or sleep with one eye open for the rest of your natural life or as long as the 2 of you are together.

 

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