Fox Sake Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 (edited) 5 minutes ago, miranda561 said: I think someones emotional maturity level needs to be worked on. And it certainly aint mine. If you cant take what i said without retaliating, then you do need to look inwards. You were like a kid in a candy store and wasn't satisfied with what you had in front of you. You can't dispute that. I shall repeat myself, you didnt love the girl and took her for granted. You only saw it was wholesome for your soul after you dumped her? O..........k You’re extremely defensive , but I’m afraid I’m too smart for you try and turn your crap around on me. When people don’t agree with you , or prove you wrong , you fail to see anyone else’s view. Please think before you type Edited June 10, 2020 by Fox Sake 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hopeful30 Posted June 10, 2020 Author Share Posted June 10, 2020 Now children, let's be respectful. We are all in the same loveshack boat. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
miranda561 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 1 minute ago, Fox Sake said: You’re extremely defensive , but I’m afraid I’m too smart for you try and turn your crap around on me. When people don’t agree with you , or prove you wrong , you fail to see anyone else’s view. Please think before you type Ditto! Its you though whos defensive. I was just giving a few opinions on your situation. And you of course can't accept it. Everyone here has a different take on things. I could say the same about people not accepting my views. No need to be a hypocrite Link to post Share on other sites
rjc149 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 1 minute ago, miranda561 said: Omg is every male poster on here part of the we love ryan reynolds fanclub. No, I just didn't think women here would kinda start sh-tting on him. Just a little surprising. But I guess that's the fun of celebrity gossip, right? To have really strong, polarizing opinions about people who play zero role in your life. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 18 minutes ago, rjc149 said: I don't think they were criticizing him, just critiquing him within the context of celebrity media. I doubt any woman here would pass up Ryan Reynolds because they were holding out for better. Tom Cruise was good looking, funny and charming. Then he sacked his publicist. Mel Gibson turned out to be anti-semite. The people of Hollywood are an illusion and not ones to be placed on a pedestal of desirability. Also I had to Google Ryan Reynolds before commenting on this because I didn't know who he was. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
miranda561 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 (edited) 2 minutes ago, rjc149 said: No, I just didn't think women here would kinda start sh-tting on him. Just a little surprising. But I guess that's the fun of celebrity gossip, right? To have really strong, polarizing opinions about people who play zero role in your life. Who the hell is ******** on him.? All i said was i dont find him appealing or attractive physically. And gave you examples of men who i do Edited June 10, 2020 by miranda561 Link to post Share on other sites
Fox Sake Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 1 minute ago, miranda561 said: Ditto! Its you though whos defensive. I was just giving a few opinions on your situation. And you of course can't accept it. Everyone here has a different take on things. I could say the same about people not accepting my views. No need to be a hypocrite Definitely not angry. More astounded at your sweeping generalisation of thinking you know how my head works. You’ll know when a Scotsman is angry by the amount of swear words that fill in between words! My situation wasn’t relevant. I feel like you spoil for an argument with people on here When they don’t agree with your views. . Not just me. I have already practiced humility over it , I’ve already learned from it, I already beat myself up for 3 years. I was just being honest with people. I see no sense in you trying to drag me for it and tell me what I did or didn’t feel. You just looked bitter in your reply and you have absolutely zero idea about me as a person and how I operate. Those are Facts Miranda. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 (edited) Now that I know who Ryan is, I will say that he's got the kind of 'boy next door' looks with a cheeky grin I would go for if he was at the local pub with his mates. Edited to add: I don't understand why so many guys talk about Hollywood guys as being the pinnacle of desirability. Edited June 10, 2020 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
miranda561 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 2 minutes ago, basil67 said: Tom Cruise was good looking, funny and charming. Then he sacked his publicist. Mel Gibson turned out to be anti-semite. The people of Hollywood are an illusion and not ones to be placed on a pedestal of desirability. Also I had to Google Ryan Reynolds before commenting on this because I didn't know who he was. Tom cruise was cool in topgun! That film was released before i was born, but can still say that Link to post Share on other sites
rjc149 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 Just now, basil67 said: Tom Cruise was good looking, funny and charming. Then he sacked his publicist. Mel Gibson turned out to be anti-semite. The people of Hollywood are an illusion and not ones to be placed on a pedestal of desirability. Also I had to Google Ryan Reynolds before commenting on this because I didn't know who he was. I'm aware of that. I was using 'Ryan Reynolds' as a blanket term for "conventionally handsome, wealthy, high-status white man in his 30's or 40's who is generally deemed as desirable by the opposite sex." You can substitute any list of names for 'Ryan Reynolds' celebrities or non-celebrities alike. Unlike the Scientologist wackjobs or bigots you mentioned, Ryan Reynolds does have a reputation for being witty and friendly in person. Maybe, I never met the guy. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 1 minute ago, miranda561 said: Tom cruise was cool in topgun! That film was released before i was born, but can still say that Funny thing about attractiveness, I would have chosen Goose over Maverick any day. Maverick may have been cute, but he was also a knob. Goose was a good man. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 2 minutes ago, enigma32 said: Hey, if y'all ladies can do better than movie stars, I'm not sure why you are here posting asking for advice. Shouldn't you be out there hanging out with some A listers? Why do you put movie stars on a pedestal? Serious question. 1 2 Link to post Share on other sites
miranda561 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 3 minutes ago, Fox Sake said: Definitely not angry. More astounded at your sweeping generalisation of thinking you know how my head works. You’ll know when a Scotsman is angry by the amount of swear words that fill in between words! My situation wasn’t relevant. I feel like you spoil for an argument with people on here When they don’t agree with your views. . Not just me. I have already practiced humility over it , I’ve already learned from it, I already beat myself up for 3 years. I was just being honest with people. I see no sense in you trying to drag me for it and tell me what I did or didn’t feel. You just looked bitter in your reply and you have absolutely zero idea about me as a person and how I operate. Those are Facts Miranda. You sound it 2bh. And obviously you can't swear here without being sanctioned. As for the 2nd paragraph no i don't. If that's how you feel youre being overly sensitive, whilst im lightly debating sometimes. Why are you taking everything as if im attacking you personally. Calm down. This is just how it looks from the outside. And you don't sound bitter when you say im not smart and I'm not emotionally mature. Its laughable😂. Maybe deep down you know what im saying is facts. Link to post Share on other sites
miranda561 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 (edited) 7 minutes ago, enigma32 said: Hey, if y'all ladies can do better than movie stars, I'm not sure why you are here posting asking for advice. Shouldn't you be out there hanging out with some A listers? The men on here are very strange. Cant take any opinions given which are different to their own. Beauty is SUBJECTIVE Edited June 10, 2020 by miranda561 3 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 1 minute ago, rjc149 said: I'm aware of that. I was using 'Ryan Reynolds' as a blanket term for "conventionally handsome, wealthy, high-status white man in his 30's or 40's who is generally deemed as desirable by the opposite sex." Ah OK. If there's a guy like that at the pub, I can guarantee I'll have an instant aversion to him. I'd go for his mate who's funny, loving and respectful. Someone without high status and regular looks. A good bloke. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Lotsgoingon Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 (edited) I had a friend who knew a lot of Hollywood celebrities, got to interact up close and personal with them, away from the camera. It was part of her job.. My friend was close to one very famous celebrity who plays cerebral, thoughtful roles and my friend likes this person but says this person is a total airhead. What this person is ... is a great actor. And this star can act quite convincingly the role of someone with knowledge and depth and solidity. But the actor's life was an utter mess. My friend knew many people like this. BTW: the acting skill of many stars carried over to interviews and appearances, according to my friend. Stars knew how to act and present a good face at those occasions as well. There was an occasional hot celebrity that my friend met who my friend thought was thoughtful, smart, mature. But many were not. Another funny thing I learned was that for many stars, the camera folks know exactly how to film aggressively around any body awkwardness. The camera folks knew exactly what side of the star's face looked best, what lighting, what makeup ... and they knew to avoid certain shots that revealed bow legs or knob knees and on and on. I remember when my friend visited the set of a famous tv show. My friend came back yelling that the women stars on this show looked totally anorexic. On the screen they looked thin--in real life way more than "thin." Edited June 10, 2020 by Lotsgoingon 1 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 (edited) ryan Reynolds isn’t conventionally handsome at all. His eyes are way too close together and odd face shape to be conventionally handsome. Not that that means he’s a bad looking guy. Obviously sinvse a lot of women(and apparently men) find him attractive. Just a zillion other dudes I’d choose before him if I had a choice . It’s subjective Edited June 10, 2020 by Cookiesandough 1 Link to post Share on other sites
miranda561 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 8 minutes ago, basil67 said: Funny thing about attractiveness, I would have chosen Goose over Maverick any day. Maverick may have been cute, but he was also a knob. Goose was a good man. 🤔 yes goose was a good man. 🤔 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 (edited) But that’s like saying no one could do better than Katie homes bc she’s famous and banged guys like Tom cruise Edited June 10, 2020 by Cookiesandough 1 Link to post Share on other sites
rjc149 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 Just now, basil67 said: Ah OK. If there's a guy like that at the pub, I can guarantee I'll have an instant aversion to him. I'd go for his mate who's funny, loving and respectful. Someone without high status and regular looks. A good bloke. What if he started turning his charm on you? Turns out he's funny and loving and witty himself? Maybe given an array of various handsome male celebrities, he's not your number 1 or 2 purely in the looks department -- but at that pub, he's giving you a lot of attention, pursuing you, and you'll say "no thanks?" Link to post Share on other sites
miranda561 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 (edited) 6 minutes ago, enigma32 said: Me, personally? I do not really. Like I mentioned before, I have a good friend that knows many of them since she lived and worked in LA. According to her, most of them she met are fake, crappy people whose public lives are basically just illusions meant to make them appear more like regular people. All that aside, a movie star, basically any of them, is going to be every single thing women are looking for. Good looking, rich, in perfect physical condition, famous, powerful, etc. That's why Ryan was mentioned. He was brought up as someone that is going to be unattainable for most regular girls since he is out there banging ladies that look like Scarlet Johansson, but that backfired since so many ladies here think they can do better. It just shows how unrealistic some people's expectations really are. Its pure rude to make statements and assumptions about how posters look on here. I can guarantee you'd be eating your words if you saw some of us. I get looks from guys who are taken..literally walking with their other halves next to them. Stop getting emotional over ryan reynolds. Edited June 10, 2020 by miranda561 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 1 minute ago, enigma32 said: a movie star, basically any of them, is going to be every single thing women are looking for. Good looking, rich, in perfect physical condition, famous, powerful, etc. OK, so clearly we have a huge disconnect because, as a woman, this is almost the antithesis of what I want. I'll have to leave you with it. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 1 minute ago, rjc149 said: What if he started turning his charm on you? Turns out he's funny and loving and witty himself? Maybe given an array of various handsome male celebrities, he's not your number 1 or 2 purely in the looks department -- but at that pub, he's giving you a lot of attention, pursuing you, and you'll say "no thanks?" No matter how funny and loving he was, I would not get past the "high status" thing. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 Yep. It's why I struggle with having sympathy for their plights 3 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 (edited) I see what you’re saying but not finding someone attractive or not doesn’t change just bc they are a celeb. There are a ton of famous guys I’m sure we’d trip out panties for. All we’re saying is RR is not one of them. A person can be out of your league and you can still not be attracted to them. Edited June 10, 2020 by Cookiesandough 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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