lovelife91011 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 (edited) so this is a story of long distance relation which lasted for 9 years.it was on 9/10/11 story and we used to have a lot of break up and patchupsBut. from the past 1 year i.e. in 2018 he lost his dad and we were in non contact zone.then in 2019 he begged me to come back and for which i patch up very easily.but from the past few month i can see a changes on him he started hidings things with me which he never did before he ask me to be like other outsider girl who roam and are smart as according to him i am very dumb,he gets very irritated in the mean time he dont give me much time(that's okay i understand his responsibility),he even lied to me that he unblok his ex gf he unblocked his best friend whom he made via online n we had many fights for her but that time he choosed me over her but he unblocked me and is in contact which he lied and there are many more things like he praise his ex gf n other girls he say that i create scene whereas till 2017 he created a hell lot of it for which my parents dont trust me anymore i have lost my friends and caree...now what i should do shall i marry with him or i have to adjust with his lies.he lie when he go out with friends to have drink or to roam with female buddies.till 2017 he was chasing me everytime and when i was in colg days in 2015 he threatened me to not let me marry with the guy with whom i used to talk.he used to chase me a lot and make me feel so special that i still miss but unfortunately from few months he doesnt do that anymore and neither he put much after breakup he just try to let me go away.but i m not able to forget him everytym i try to moveon i miss him a lot and wish everything to be like before.he is busy with his business i do understand that m ready to give that space but sometime when he say on face that m not good enuf it makes my self esteem very low i lost many friends just cause he used to think m flirting with them. i tried to move on i even tried to discuss the matter that he started hurtedme with d hide he just say just cause i dont get hurt he dont say the truth.he even try to defend himself sometime n continue to hide things i am very confused now what shall i do its such that i m very used to him and i tell him each and everything of my life but he dont say it he dont respect me n treat me like before he used to..please suggest me Edited June 10, 2020 by lovelife91011 spelling mistake Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 I'm sorry OP, but this man doesn't love you. This relationship sounds very toxic and you need to cut him out of your life. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mystery4u Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 It's been 9 years. 9. Nine. NINE. And you are still not together in the same country but still a LDR. You are wasting your time. If you were meant to be together and get married etc it would have happened A LOT sooner. Forget him and move on. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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