pepperbird Posted June 15, 2020 Share Posted June 15, 2020 OP, first off, catch your breath and slow down a bit. You're really upset, and it's hard to make decisions when your mind is running. one you feel a bit more centred, take a step back and really look at your situation. You paint it as being something happening to you, but it isn't. It's happening because of you. Admitting that is so important, because once you do, you can see that you have a lot of power of the direction of your life. You're not happy. That's pretty obvious. Why are you staying in two relationships that don't meet your needs?Why is it that even two relationships aren't enough? I don't mean that as a jab, just that it could mean that your unhappiness is coming from inside you, and you could find the perfect guy and you still wouldn't feel satisfied. You can't be happy with someone else if you're not happy with yourself. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Amethyst68 Posted June 15, 2020 Share Posted June 15, 2020 3 hours ago, HadMeOverABarrel said: HERE YA GO (she said more than 'he knows'): I read the same paragraph you did and the only thing she actually admits to telling her husband is that she has feelings for another man. Nowhere in there is she saying she told him about her PA. If she ever comes back to clarify the situation I'd bet the husband doesn't know the full story. Link to post Share on other sites
Negotaurus Posted June 16, 2020 Share Posted June 16, 2020 Not to be harsh but to be realistic - you are a grown woman and your life is in your hands. If you choose to stay put and continue hurting, enjoy it while it lasts I guess. I'd take charge of my own life and stop acting like it isn't mine to control. Stop romanticizing a cheater's relationship. Come back down to Earth. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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