rjr2020 Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 Ex who cheated and dumped me 10 years ago keep trying to contact me. After about 3 or 4 years of the breakup, every once or twice a year he just popped up out of nowhere and texted me saying all how he missed me, we need to talk.. blah blah blah.. I never acknowledged him, just blocked his number and moved on. Then he went and got a new phone number and do it all over again! He hurt me pretty bad back then. I believe he was my first love, not sure about him tho.When he dumped me, I was devastated. Bad memories just popped back up every time he tried to reach out. When he first reached out over Facebook, I told him I don't want to talk to you, leave me alone. He agreed, but doesn't seems like he listened. Now, I am starting to getting annoyed. why can't he just let me be! what more do I have to do? Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 8 hours ago, rjr2020 said: Ex who cheated and dumped me 10 years ago keep trying to contact me. After about 3 or 4 years of the breakup, every once or twice a year he just popped up out of nowhere and texted me saying all how he missed me, we need to talk.. blah blah blah.. I never acknowledged him, just blocked his number and moved on. Then he went and got a new phone number and do it all over again! He hurt me pretty bad back then. I believe he was my first love, not sure about him tho.When he dumped me, I was devastated. Bad memories just popped back up every time he tried to reach out. When he first reached out over Facebook, I told him I don't want to talk to you, leave me alone. He agreed, but doesn't seems like he listened. Now, I am starting to getting annoyed. why can't he just let me be! what more do I have to do? Can't you directly tell him you don't want to hear from him anymore? To respect your wishes and never contact you again? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 9 hours ago, rjr2020 said: When he first reached out over Facebook, I told him I don't want to talk to you, leave me alone. He agreed, but doesn't seems like he listened. Now, I am starting to getting annoyed. why can't he just let me be! what more do I have to do? I suspect he knows you still have feelings for him even though they are negative and he's betting that you will see his repeated attempts as a "sincere" effort on his part to make amends and change your mind. If your feelings were indifferent you would not be in danger. You can block him and hope he gives up as long as he doesn't try to physically show up at your front door or start "accidently" meeting you when you are out. The next step you can take is to see a lawyer. Sometimes just receiving a letter from a lawyer with veiled threats is enough to put off an old SO. That shouldn't cost you too much for some peace of mind. It will let him know you are serious. If that doesn't scare them move on up to a restraining order. If he gets obsessive it's time to carry pepper spray and not walk alone at night. Do take this seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 You have brothers? I have 3 and I would only have to ask one of them to solve it for me. Get a man from your life to call this bozzo and let him know his harassment ends here. Link to post Share on other sites
Pumaza Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 he could be a stalker. or he kust dont get it.he just text to hook up or apologize?eitherway... so you need to say it more clear.and change your number. like : hey you keep texting me every few years,with a new number, its getting annoying.as i told you before i dont want any kind of contact with you. not even every few years. stop contacting me, move on.i moved on long ago. im blocking you.bye. Link to post Share on other sites
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