Jaynee Posted July 6, 2020 Share Posted July 6, 2020 So a long story short me and my partner split up last night because his depression got so bad over the last month or so we both agreed to go out own ways. He said he needs time to be better and be him again and I couldn't put up with the emotional abuse and the way he treated me like ****. I just don't know how he could just leave me after all I've done for him. I supported him financially when he lost his job for 4 months, stayed with him when he lost his licence again for drink driving, stayed when he declared bankruptcy, I literally did everything for him. Drove him to work and back made dinner etc and when the going got really tough he bailed. I know I agreed because it just wasn't working. But does Any one know how to move on from something like this? I'm mourning the loss of our plans and dreams and we only had the funeral for our baby last week. I had a early misscarriage. Any advice x Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted July 6, 2020 Share Posted July 6, 2020 (edited) I’m sorry for everything that you’re going through right now. You sound very strong though so will most likely be okay no matter what life throws your way. Best thing to do is remind yourself why you don’t want him back. Edited July 6, 2020 by amaysngrace 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Realitysux Posted July 6, 2020 Share Posted July 6, 2020 What if he didn't see a way out so he did everything he could to destroy a connection but couldn't because no matter what he did the connection still felt real and he wanted you back? What would he have to do to get you back? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TeddyBundy1993 Posted July 6, 2020 Share Posted July 6, 2020 Few people are like that they dont see what we did for them and drop us like a hot potato. What can you do now ? Just pic yourself up. And not to wait for him anymore. He seems emotionally unstable to me. Dont look back and count things you did for him that's really bad mistake dumpee do and it makes moving on difficult and keeps us stuck on this question how can they move on forgetting all that. Time will heal you. First few months are always difficult. Talking about your feeling gonna help. Not to mention keep strict no contact with this dude. Be positive as this is rough phase of your life sorry about the loss of your child. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GeorgiaPeach1 Posted July 8, 2020 Share Posted July 8, 2020 You can't make someone love you and want to be with you by showering them with gifts, money and favors. The average Joe will gladly accept these things, then still leave when they get bored or tired of the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jaynee Posted July 8, 2020 Author Share Posted July 8, 2020 Yeah think i've learnt that the hard way. Link to post Share on other sites
dangerous Posted July 13, 2020 Share Posted July 13, 2020 You said he gave you emotional abuse. So hang on to that reason for YOU deciding breaking up was the right thing to do. Prolonged emotional abuse is never acceptable. It feels tough now, but in time, you will be in a better place. Going back very rarely works, you break up for a reason. Now look forward to things never being this bad again Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 13, 2020 Share Posted July 13, 2020 I'm so sorry about your baby OP and I know it must be incredibly hard for you right now. I read somewhere a long time ago that a lot of couples break up after the loss of a child. I forgot what they said the reason was but I hope you have others around for support right now. Link to post Share on other sites
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