Author Sarah_K Posted July 19, 2020 Author Share Posted July 19, 2020 13 hours ago, Fair said: Err... No. It's not selfish of you. It's normal. But don't go. He's trying to discourage you from coming. He is in hospital at the moment and I couldn't go anyway Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 19, 2020 Share Posted July 19, 2020 (edited) OMG. How is his hand / arm? Did the surgery go OK? Not being able to be there for him at this time of crisis has to be killing you. Hopefully you will get to video chat soon so you can see for yourself Edited July 19, 2020 by d0nnivain Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sarah_K Posted July 19, 2020 Author Share Posted July 19, 2020 2 hours ago, d0nnivain said: OMG. How is his hand / arm? Did the surgery go OK? Not being able to be there for him at this time of crisis has to be killing you. Hopefully you will get to video chat soon so you can see for yourself Its all bandaged up from what he has shown me, he has some metal plates in there now and surgery went okay! His insurance is planning on bringing him back home so the NHS can look after him. I want to be with him so badly, He is in a foreign country in a hospital on his own. The nurses are great though they ring me up with updates, Although they think I'm an Aussie in the UK. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sarah_K Posted July 21, 2020 Author Share Posted July 21, 2020 Looks like they won't be lifting restrictions any tome soon. I just really want to see him. They moved him back to the UK today. Link to post Share on other sites
Pumaza Posted July 28, 2020 Share Posted July 28, 2020 You barelly know him. And its corona time you got no job. So lets say you go there and many stuff comes up for you to pay for there and at home. Where. you gonna get money? You only had "fun time"" with this giy.No strong base is formed yet.So you dont know hownit will go and if you get in trouble financially if he gonna help you and for how long. Worry about your home and finding a new job.He wont be much with you and you may feel used or bored and you cant blame him then.Its all your own choice to go. You can wait and seek other job and meanwhile save more money and the. fly to him for a week or so when he takes vacation and there is less corona. Because how sad will it be you come back and they kicked you out of your home because you couldnt pay.😳😭😭😭 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted August 1, 2020 Share Posted August 1, 2020 (edited) Now that his hand is messed up, he won't be able to work for weeks...if he was willing to fly to see you, then he can pay for your flight to see him. If he gives you a bunch of excuses and claims he's going back to work , then it's all bs and your ship is a sinking. Edited August 1, 2020 by smackie9 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sarah_K Posted August 7, 2020 Author Share Posted August 7, 2020 On 8/1/2020 at 9:29 PM, smackie9 said: Now that his hand is messed up, he won't be able to work for weeks...if he was willing to fly to see you, then he can pay for your flight to see him. If he gives you a bunch of excuses and claims he's going back to work , then it's all bs and your ship is a sinking. He isn't allowed in the country (Australia is banning all but essential travel or those with an exception). I know hes applied for exception to come. We're waiting for that to process. But he'll be in quarantine for 2 weeks if he gets one and when he arrives. He has said as soon as I'm allowed to see him he is booking me a flight. As for help financially. He has paid my car loan off so I have one less bill to pay. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 7, 2020 Share Posted August 7, 2020 Is he married? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Fair Posted August 7, 2020 Share Posted August 7, 2020 This whole thing is just ... off. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sarah_K Posted August 9, 2020 Author Share Posted August 9, 2020 On 8/7/2020 at 10:01 PM, Fair said: This whole thing is just ... off. How? On 8/7/2020 at 11:21 AM, Wiseman2 said: Is he married? No. I've spent time with him in the UK before. Link to post Share on other sites
hippychick3 Posted August 9, 2020 Share Posted August 9, 2020 On 8/7/2020 at 5:21 AM, Wiseman2 said: Is he married? I‘d be shocked if there were not someone else in the picture. He does not want her there. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sarah_K Posted August 10, 2020 Author Share Posted August 10, 2020 22 hours ago, hippychick3 said: I‘d be shocked if there were not someone else in the picture. He does not want her there. Are you saying he is cheating on me? Link to post Share on other sites
hippychick3 Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 1 hour ago, Sarah_K said: Are you saying he is cheating on me? There is absolutely no way anyone here could know that for sure. But given his behaviors and reluctance to see you, I would be surprised if there was not another woman in his life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sarah_K Posted August 23, 2020 Author Share Posted August 23, 2020 On 8/10/2020 at 9:39 PM, hippychick3 said: There is absolutely no way anyone here could know that for sure. But given his behaviors and reluctance to see you, I would be surprised if there was not another woman in his life. I outright asked him and he denied it. He has been off with work going crazy as he lives on his own and can't do anything. Link to post Share on other sites
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