S2B Posted July 18, 2020 Share Posted July 18, 2020 7 hours ago, Marianon said: I only found the kinky side when i met him. I have been searching for someone else for 2 full years, he knows that but i honestly can't find anyone who thinks in the same way as he/we do. It’s possible he’s just mirroring your wants/needs. most MM are so desperate to keep the OW they do and tell them anything they think she needs to hear/see. it is easily his illusion. Link to post Share on other sites
Marianon Posted July 18, 2020 Share Posted July 18, 2020 1 hour ago, S2B said: It’s possible he’s just mirroring your wants/needs. most MM are so desperate to keep the OW they do and tell them anything they think she needs to hear/see. You know what, i agree. That is the way of it for many (including me before). However, i don't believe that to be the case with him, given he was always kinky. i only started to realise my kinky side when i met him. Like i said, i have been searching to find someone else who could satisfy me the way he does but right now, our relationship meets both our needs Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted July 19, 2020 Share Posted July 19, 2020 Well have it your way. But what makes you not feel great if you keep defending him so much? what would it take for you to end the affair? he won’t leave the M - is that good enough for you? for what it’s worth, any time I had amazing sex - it always made me make stupid compromises for my own boundary. And ya, I’m old. I’ve had sex with many men in my single years... but I did stupid things when the sex was that good. Not anymore 😀 Link to post Share on other sites
MJJean Posted July 19, 2020 Share Posted July 19, 2020 (edited) On 7/17/2020 at 11:20 PM, Marianon said: You know what, i agree. That is the way of it for many (including me before). However, i don't believe that to be the case with him, given he was always kinky. i only started to realise my kinky side when i met him. Like i said, i have been searching to find someone else who could satisfy me the way he does but right now, our relationship meets both our needs Check FetLife or any number of internet kinkster sites. Go to munches. That kind of thing. Also, clearly he isn't meeting your needs or you wouldn't have been looking for someone else for 2 years. He's meeting some of your needs. In order to find someone who can meet all of your needs you'll have to be in a place where you can invest something into a potential relationship, but you won't be in that position while still involved with this guy. Edited July 19, 2020 by MJJean Link to post Share on other sites
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