shalina1789 Posted July 15, 2020 Share Posted July 15, 2020 Long story short. I come from a good respectable family. My brother fell off this and last year majorly having two suicide attempts. he's been in an on and off relationship with this girl. But he cheated on her twice, the first time was flirting over text message for about 10 mins. His gf found this out and wanted to leave him but she gave him another chance. I vouched for him saying it was out of character and i know its not like him to do this. Today, she found out he had slept with a girl for a few months and she got pregnant but miscarried the child. I don't know what to do about this because it's making me feel so anxious. This is going to make him sound like such a s***ty person and I'm not defending him one bit. There is no excuse for what hes done. He knows he f***ed up in the worst way possible and his gf took it out with him. She shouted, swore, punched and slapped him. He said he deserves it. im just getting this out on a forum because I don't have anyone to talk to, and my mental health hasnt been great due to my personal stresses and the stress i have over my brothers mental health episodes too. I feel so trapped with no one to turn to with this information. Its so overwhelming and I am not sure how to approach it. Ive never seen my brother as the type to do this, ever. He's always been an advocate of not cheating etc. But I guess not, and I really am so stuck?? Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted July 16, 2020 Share Posted July 16, 2020 It's between them. Don't get in the middle of it, and don't take on their problems as if they are your problems. Put up some boundaries. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 16, 2020 Share Posted July 16, 2020 Blood is thicker than water. Stay out of it. If it was the other way around, she was cheating on your brother I'd say tell because he's family but here just keep your mouth shut. Link to post Share on other sites
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