confused_gf Posted July 16, 2020 Share Posted July 16, 2020 Hi everyone, So I met this guy online about a month ago on OKC. Was super excited, seemed we had a lot in common. He was very good with following up with me (texting me good morning and good night everyday/every night, frequent calls, texts me all day long). After about a month that slowed down considerably but we still are in communication. He said earlier before things slowed that he wanted me to come out so I booked my flight. I don't think either of us want to sleep together right away but I've been pretty vocal about wanting physical affection especially wanting to snuggle. Texts have been very spaced out and last night I get one saying he doesn't have a second bed. "Going to sleep night" he says immediately after. I was a little shocked. Today I asked him where it is best for me to sleep and he said maybe the couch. Should I take this and the slower communication as a bad sign? Maybe he isn't so into me? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 16, 2020 Share Posted July 16, 2020 You are not exercising good judgment here. Flying to see someone you don't know during a pandemic seems crazy to me. Most states you will need to self quarantine for some period of time upon arrival at your destination & then again after you get home. Second, it's always advisable to meet in a public place & have your own hotel room when traveling like this. Your desire to "snuggle" is understandable on one level because a relationship needs physical contact but staying in the home of a man you don't know is not a safe option. Moreover climbing into a bed of a man you do not intend to have sex with constitutes teasing. Don't do it He thinks you are willing to fly & pay money to see in him during a pandemic because you are DTF. If you are not, stay out of his house. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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