Ariana1 Posted July 21, 2020 Share Posted July 21, 2020 My ex boyfriend told me he loves me and misses me a lot and needs me and he hugged me and kissed me when we me met and I always seem to bump into him somehow I feel like he follows me around sometimes and he gets jealous if other guys talk to me but at the same time he told me he doesn’t want us to get back together and that he wants to forget me but He wants to keep talking to me and meeting and he said he will always be there for me and beside me no matter what and he doesn’t want to date anyone new or have a new girlfriend and he doesn’t want to be just friends and he tries to kiss me all the time the last time I met him he tried to kiss me and I backed off and I told him since we are not together anymore I don’t want him to kiss me he said sorry but later He kissed me against my will he said he can’t control himself and he askes me If I’m dating someone new... he was the one who dumped me and I asked If he wants us to get back together after he told me he loves me and misses me a lot he said no however he’s acting this way I’m so confused(I still love him and I do want him back) 😔 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 21, 2020 Share Posted July 21, 2020 Stay away from him Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 21, 2020 Share Posted July 21, 2020 57 minutes ago, Ariana1 said: He kissed me against my will he said he can’t control himself and he askes me If I’m dating someone new... he was the one who dumped me and I asked If he wants us to get back together after he told me he loves me and misses me a lot he said no however he’s acting this way I’m so confused(I still love him and I do want him back) 😔 He's trying to make you his FWB. He just doesn't want you replacing him before he finds your replacement. Don't do it. Your heart will be broken all over again. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 21, 2020 Share Posted July 21, 2020 It's heartbreaking that you still love him & want him back. He's using that to get what he wants -- NSA sex. He wants to have sex with you when it's convenient for him but wants no commitment. You need to cut him completely out of your life. No more meeting him. No more talking to him. If you see him when you are out & about walk the other way. If he is willing to try again, that would be one thing but now what he's doing is just mean & selfish. He doesn't want you but he wants to keep you tethered to him. How awful. You have to put a stop to this or you will be stuck & miserable Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 21, 2020 Share Posted July 21, 2020 Tamara1. Stay away. He broke up and being FWB is a demotion Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted July 21, 2020 Share Posted July 21, 2020 Ex's are ex's for a reason. Stop meeting up with him. Stop helping him get over dumping you. Too bad if he doesn't like you going out with other guys--he lost that boyfriend perk when he dumped you. You can't sex your way back into the relationship you want with him, so don't even go there with him. if it's over, then act like it's over. Quit talking to him. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
TeddyBundy1993 Posted July 21, 2020 Share Posted July 21, 2020 Exaptinitaly, said it. He just wanna f*** around without commitment. You are not a sex object. How old is he ? Seems like in early 20ies. Dont meet him or contact him anymore it gonna hurt you. You need to cut ties and move on from this guy. He clearly doesnt qualify to be a an ex that you can be friends with. These lines are very common" I'll always be there for you" trust me he doesn't mean it. This is usual horses*** dumpers feeds dumpee Once he meet his new "LOVE" you'l be history. Protect yourself, stay away. Hope you'll move on soon. Good luck dear Link to post Share on other sites
sheithappens Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 I quickly read your story and the thing that stood out to me was that he wants to keep you on the back burner and keeps checking in to see if you are single . He wants you to wait for him while he goes and does he crap . You are no ones doormat . Link to post Share on other sites
sheithappens Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 Don’t be his doormat . Cut contact with him for your well-being Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 25, 2020 Share Posted July 25, 2020 Talk to an adult. Google "stalking" and "assault" (if he is 'kissing you against your will'). Delete and block him from all messaging apps and a void him. Stop being alone with him. He is acting creepy. On 7/21/2020 at 7:46 AM, Ariana1 said: My ex boyfriend doesn’t want us to get back together (he was the one who broke up with me by the way) but at the same time he told me he still loves me and misses me and needs me so much, he also kissed me and he comes to places where he knows I’m at and he finds excuses to meet me and tries to kiss me all the time and he gets jealous if any guy talks or flirts with me, he says he wants to “protect me” and he asked me If I’m talking to a new guy or dating someone new, I explained to him that I don’t agree that he kisses me since we’re not together anymore but later he kissed me against my will, he said he can't control himself and can resist me. I told him that we’re either just friends or that we stop talking at all so he said that he doesn’t want to stop talking to me and that we’ll be friends but without meeting since he can’t control himself when he sees me and I agreed but then he quickly changed his mind and wants to meet me again and he finds any excuse, Why is he acting like this? I mean he already understood I don’t agree to be friends with benefits or anything like that even though he didn’t say that but I felt like thats what he wanted Link to post Share on other sites
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