Author lee179108 Posted July 24, 2020 Author Share Posted July 24, 2020 45 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: You need to figure out what happened three weeks ago. That sudden turnaround is a red flag. Thats whens she started going back on the birth control.... Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 24, 2020 Share Posted July 24, 2020 2 hours ago, lee179108 said: Thats whens she started going back on the birth control.... Then I really don't think her birth control is what is behind this sudden change in her desire to commit. Having been on different birth control pills in my life, they generally don't affect your hormones to that degree so quickly. It takes some time for your body to adjust and to feel much of a side effect. It's not as though she would begin doubting her readiness to commit as soon as she started taking pills, which is what she's trying to claim here. Something is else is going on with her. You're looking at two things that are related in time, but not that one is causing the other. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lee179108 Posted July 24, 2020 Author Share Posted July 24, 2020 Yeah like I said i cant ever know whats in her head... all i know is that over a month ago she was over the moon with me.. and the past 3 weeks its been up and down. I can see now how ive been needy due to past experiences with her, and I have toned it down a lot this week i think and will continue to do so. She's staying over tomorrow night and im just gonna roll with it, try to have fun, not make the no sex thing an issue, if she doesn't feel like it that is. Shes texted a bit today but not much, as shes with family but when she does she still calls me babe etcc.. and it was her that texted me first this morning. Maybe when shes back home and not as busy she will switch up again as that gives time to think... i dont know.. All I know is that if she ever did want to end it or want space or whatever i would just be like ok fine, bye.. you do you and I'll do me. I've learnt from last time not to go chasing and I wont ever do that again. She even texted my mom yesterday saying what we were doing tomorrow and whats shes been up to this week... Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 17, 2020 Share Posted August 17, 2020 On 7/23/2020 at 12:55 PM, lee179108 said: she is also one for not liking routine... and said in the past its good for her to miss me.. we have been seeing eachother once a week for the past 2 or 3 months as well... Do mood disorders run in her family? She seems to be unravelling and her family seems to know more about it than you do. She needs a psychiatrist not a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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