rajinams Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t71813/ Hi guys i allready posted earlier. I know this girl from a long time and good friends with her and have started having feelings for her. I have been thinking about her a lot these days and deeply in love with her. She is two hrs from where i live we dont get to see each other that often.We do keep in touch through phone. I just visited her this weekend and for the first time i found out that we have quiet a lot in common, in fact we think alike on a lot of issues. We couldnt spend a lot of time together though. I am planning to visit her again in two weeks and take her out for a show and dinner. I still don't know her feelings for me. please advise me how to find out her feelings for me also i want to hint her abt my feelings for her in my next meeting. Should i confess her everything or wait, as i dont want to stain our friendship and also but im not sure how to hint her my feelings for her. Has any1 in the same situations plz advice. Link to post Share on other sites
Jayhawks Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 My advice: find another girl to love. More advice: don't become friends with a gal you are attracted to. I really would not confess your feelings for her. I know it's hard but find someone else and keep her as an acquaintance if you can. You may need to back away from her if you can't let the feelings go. Keep yourself out of these situations in the future. Date a gal to learn about them. Don't go the friends route. Link to post Share on other sites
slubberdegullion Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 rajinams: Read this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author rajinams Posted October 12, 2005 Author Share Posted October 12, 2005 Thanks slubberdegullion for such a deep insight into the subject.i really like some of ur points u made. I think we both are quiet types but i was doing a lot of talking even more than her as i was trying to make conversation. Anyways as my previous post I wont be able to meet her before november. Also she told me some secrets and made me swear not to tell it to anyone. I guess she has some trust in me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author rajinams Posted November 21, 2005 Author Share Posted November 21, 2005 Things are not going that well, I have been trying to get in touch with her but she never answers to my call I call her and leave her a voice mail mostly everyweek, as I have been going to her town almost everyweekend for work purpose and always call so that I can meet her. She responds to me after weeks. I also email her sometimes about my plan but she never replies back and always makes an excuse that her phone dies or she is too busy with her things. I am planning to visit her next week and take her for a game, also please advise me if it is too early to say the "L" word as she is leaving for hoildays for a month for christsmas.Also advice me how can i hint her about my feelings.Myabe I should just call her or email her and tell all abt what I feel for her or should i try to meet her in person and ter her all that. How do u guys work out in a long distance realtionship plz help!! Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 Leave her alone. She's not interested but doesn't want to tell you so. She keeps giving you excuses because she isn't interested. Quit calling and do NOT use the 'L' word or she'll think you're a nutjob. Link to post Share on other sites
Tiny Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 do NOT use the 'L' word or she'll think you're a nutjob. looooooool ffs Outcast Does sound like your spot on though. Link to post Share on other sites
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