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Problems with myself led her to leaving me. Anxious and depressed in lockdown and most of my life to be honest but it was much worse being locked away from the world. Little issues we didnt agree on became huge and then one day she was gone just over message like it was nothing and on a dating app the day after. 18 months didnt mean anything to her. It was 6 weeks ago and still feels like yesterday she wont speak to me at all anymore and doesn’t  even reply I’ve made a fool of myself Trying to win her back but now i give up :( not because i want too but because i have too. I gave the girl every part of me and now i have nothing left just a empty hole i cant imagine anyone else filling. All i ever asked was to not reply to guys messages an it was enough for her to leave after being so happy with me.

 

-a broken man

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I'm so sorry this happened to you.  

This pandemic has taken huge tolls on everyone. 

You will live to love again.  Hang in there.  

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scooby-philly

Hang in there my friend. Yesterday marked 11 months from my biggest heartache - after I thought I had finally found someone loving, affectionate, kind, etc. after picking the wrong people previously. I feel your pain. And remember - true love (and true lovers/partners) are there for you when you're down and offer a leg to stand on while you pick yourself back up. So if she started fighting over nothing, if she left in such a hurry, remember she was probably emotionally checked out WAY before she physically left and if she didn't give you a real hint as to her feelings and an opportunity for you to work on yourself and the relationship, then you didn't stand a chance and to move on so quickly from 1.5 years, (as there, unless you tell us differently, any major issues - cheating, money, abuse, drugs, etc,) means she's just looking to fill the hole in our own soul so count your blessings, love yourself, and move on!

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