Mikado Posted July 30, 2020 Share Posted July 30, 2020 (edited) Hi, I hope someone (especially women) here can give me some insight. I have a female friend that I find attractive, no romantic feelings though. Couple of months ago we were hanging out, basically just chilling, talking and watching stuff. As it happens when you lie next to a pretty girl I got a really intense boner. Don't know if she didn't notice or ignored it on purpose. I started gauging the situation, got a bit closer, cuddled her a bit... she didn't seem to mind. Then I started gently stroking her stomach, which she also didn't object to. I slowly moved upwards until my fingertips were reaching her bra but at that point she put her hand on mine and stopped me. I of course stopped immediately and apologised. She was like "it's ok, I'm just not in the mood". We continued lying there and I didn't do anything cause I didn't wanna push her. Then suddenly she started feeling my boner, unzipped me and took out my dick. I asked her if she was sure that was ok and she was like "yes but only that". She jerked me off and it felt awesome but was also weird because I didn't dare do anything and we didn't look at each other while she was doing it. I came and we lay there for some more time and then she got up to wash her hands and we didn't talk about it. That was four months ago, only saw her once since then (together with other people). Usually I guess I would have addressed it much sooner but because of corona meeting up wasn't possible for quite some time. But tbh I'm slowly getting crazy from not having had sex in ages and I keep thinking back about that experience with her and I keep fantasizing about how we could continue from there and sorry for being straightforward but I can't stop thinking about having sex with her. I don't wanna push her or be disrespectful though so I don't know how to approach her. I just wanna know if she'd be interested in hooking up, no strings attached. If she says no, that's totally fine. But I don't know how to ask without being insensitive. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks. Edited July 30, 2020 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 30, 2020 Share Posted July 30, 2020 She knew you were aroused. She didn't want sex. She was kind enough to offer you relief but she has no major desire to repeat the encounter. Do not ask her for sex. It would be an insult. Perhaps sometime if you are ever alone together in the future you can make a move. She may be open to NSA sex in that moment but whatever you do, please do not reach out & talk to her about what happened 4 months ago or suggest a booty call now. Just don't. 3 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforlasting Posted September 28, 2020 Share Posted September 28, 2020 Curious... when you say no romantic feelings what do you mean exactly? Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted September 28, 2020 Share Posted September 28, 2020 On 7/30/2020 at 3:20 PM, Mikado said: But tbh I'm slowly getting crazy from not having had sex in ages in view of this she looks your best shot at the moment, no harm in asking I suppose Link to post Share on other sites
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