Author Ruby Slippers Posted August 9, 2020 Author Share Posted August 9, 2020 I don't think I could ever take a guy back after he'd been with someone else or I had. That firmly closes the door for me. I've never done it. I don't think I'll have any problem dating again once I'm ready. Last round I was talking to lots of interesting men - my ex was very assertive in meeting and making it official. Next time I'm thinking I'll go slower and take my time. Have you tried dating others? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
snowcones Posted August 9, 2020 Share Posted August 9, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, Ruby Slippers said: I don't think I could ever take a guy back after he'd been with someone else or I had. That firmly closes the door for me. I've never done it. I don't think I'll have any problem dating again once I'm ready. Last round I was talking to lots of interesting men - my ex was very assertive in meeting and making it official. Next time I'm thinking I'll go slower and take my time. Have you tried dating others? To be fair, I only took him back once, but if he tries to come back again I won't take him back. Lesson learned. I have tried to date others but I'm a lot more picky than he is, so I haven't found anyone. Edited August 9, 2020 by snowcones 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ruby Slippers Posted August 9, 2020 Author Share Posted August 9, 2020 (edited) Good for you. I think you can do better. And I'm with you: quality is so much more appealing than quantity 😊 Edited August 9, 2020 by Ruby Slippers 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Artdeco Posted August 9, 2020 Share Posted August 9, 2020 I suspected this guy was a lemon, when you first started complaining about his drooling after other women during your your date(s). I was hoping it was a one-time mishap, and let’s be honest, they do occur. We all like to give 2nd chances if we believe in something. Like we should. Nobody wants to rule somebody out, just because of one bad night. Ppl can have bad days, after all. But then he moved in, due to Covid, and you got to observe him in full “him-mode”. covid might’ve been your blessing in disguise under these specific circumstances ....... 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ruby Slippers Posted August 9, 2020 Author Share Posted August 9, 2020 I never noticed it until our first big fight that night he had too much to drink and acted like a complete jerk, which as I recall was a couple months in. I guess before that he was on his best behavior. I'm truly happy on my own now, much happier single than being with a guy who muddies up my good vibe. So I feel like dating is gonna be so much cleaner and simpler in the future. I'm not even thinking about dating again at this point. When I do, I'll be screening a lot more slowly and carefully. If I find myself on a date with a guy who behaves in any kind of off-putting way, I'll wrap it up, say good night, and that'll be the end of our association. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
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