Author MalBA Posted August 7, 2020 Author Posted August 7, 2020 27 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: This has been answered already. Where?
Wiseman2 Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 1 hour ago, MalBA said: Where? 🌈 Somewhere over the rainbow?
stillafool Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 1 hour ago, MalBA said: Where? Look it up, it's in here.
smackie9 Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 (edited) 2 hours ago, MalBA said: We always wrote love you Did he say "I love you" when he looked you in the eyes dreamily? You never mentioned you were madly "in love" with each other, etc. Edited August 7, 2020 by smackie9 1
Author MalBA Posted August 7, 2020 Author Posted August 7, 2020 12 minutes ago, smackie9 said: Did he say "I love you" when he looked you in the eyes dreamily? You never mentioned you were madly "in love" with each other, etc. Not dreamily but did say love you and we always write love you in whatsapp or on calls
ExpatInItaly Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 What advice are you actually seeking at this point, OP? 1
Author MalBA Posted August 7, 2020 Author Posted August 7, 2020 49 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: What advice are you actually seeking at this point, OP? 1 hour ago, MalBA said: Not dreamily but did say love you and we always write love you in whatsapp or on calls What about this?
Wiseman2 Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 17 minutes ago, MalBA said: What about this? In the past, no?
Author MalBA Posted August 7, 2020 Author Posted August 7, 2020 20 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: In the past, no? Will you still say we were fwb?
Author MalBA Posted August 7, 2020 Author Posted August 7, 2020 23 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: What about it? will you still say it aas stop gap filler relationship?
Wiseman2 Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 22 minutes ago, MalBA said: will you still say it aas stop gap filler relationship? Well he is with her not you, no?
d0nnivain Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 21 minutes ago, MalBA said: will you still say it aas stop gap filler relationship? It was a real relationship. It was more then FWB. It wasn't a gap filler. But it's OVER. The fact that is has ended & he has moved on to a new GF is the part you have to focus on and accept. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 42 minutes ago, MalBA said: will you still say it aas stop gap filler relationship? I would say it has no relevance to your life now.
Author MalBA Posted August 7, 2020 Author Posted August 7, 2020 28 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: It was a real relationship. It was more then FWB. It wasn't a gap filler. But it's OVER. The fact that is has ended & he has moved on to a new GF is the part you have to focus on and accept. Omg people keep saying its stop gap you also said filler relationship and now its more than fwb. And now you are saying it isn't?
d0nnivain Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 Please re-read what I wrote. I said your relationship with your EX was real. I am not minimizing it in the slightest. My only point to you was that your relationship -- whatever it was & however important it was to you -- has now ended. You need to move on.
stillafool Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 2 hours ago, MalBA said: will you still say it aas stop gap filler relationship? The point is whatever you called it back then it's over now and he's with another girl. It's over. 1
Author MalBA Posted August 7, 2020 Author Posted August 7, 2020 37 minutes ago, stillafool said: The point is whatever you called it back then it's over now and he's with another girl. It's over. Do u still think it was filler?
Wiseman2 Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 38 minutes ago, stillafool said: The point is............... The sheer entertainment value. 1
d0nnivain Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 53 minutes ago, MalBA said: Do u still think it was filler? What difference does it make? It could have been a marriage. It's still over.
stillafool Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 1 hour ago, MalBA said: Do u still think it was filler? Do you?
Author MalBA Posted August 8, 2020 Author Posted August 8, 2020 12 hours ago, stillafool said: Do you? I dont
ExpatInItaly Posted August 8, 2020 Posted August 8, 2020 2 hours ago, MalBA said: I dont Then just leave it there. You should not need a bunch of internet strangers to assign validity (or not) to your own feelings. 3
LynneVicious Posted August 9, 2020 Posted August 9, 2020 Op, it honestly doesn’t matter if you were just fwb, f*** buddied or engaged to be married... it’s over now. You need to detach so you can move on and heal.
elaine567 Posted August 9, 2020 Posted August 9, 2020 Bruised ego. "Our relationship was the best, I was the best, he is nuts for choosing some stupid "cougar", instead of me..." BUT such is life. You are not him, he is his own person, he gets to decide who he wants to spend his time with. Unfortunately for you, it is not you. Grieve, heal and move on. Your ego will recover in time.
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