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MalBA Established Member

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Just now, kendahke said:

He only told his mom what he wants her to know about you... and the fact of the matter remain he never took you to meet her, certainly not with the swiftness he took this woman he's been pining for for 4 years.

I met her but only a few months before break up. This one was too prompt

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Just now, MalBA said:

how was I willing? He moved to my city so I helped him around ? She was available but he caused issues and moved on . Started dating me.

I doubt he did... even if he did, it wasn't enough to keep him interested in you and by your side.

Are you mad because you no longer have a sex partner?

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1 minute ago, kendahke said:

you all only know what he wants you all to know

What does this imply? He remains off from socials as he maintained privacy. Even now his accounts are barren. Only 1 pic on both.

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I met her but only a few months before break up. This one was too prompt

Now you're saying you met her... 🙄

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What does this imply?

google it

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1 minute ago, kendahke said:

I doubt he did... even if he did, it wasn't enough to keep him interested in you and by your side.

Are you mad because you no longer have a sex partner?

He did mess up. Then his friend said he always felt bad and guilty for losing the chance when he was given. 

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1 minute ago, kendahke said:

Now you're saying you met her... 🙄

Yes i have and she knew about me. I already said I didn't meet anyone for many months until  2 months before we broke up., I met his brother and family.

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Yes i have and she knew about me.

and look how much that matters to everyone concerned...

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1 minute ago, kendahke said:

and look how much that matters to everyone concerned...

You actually believe a guy calling an old crush moon or venus is legit?

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1 hour ago, MalBA said:

I just want to know if I was replaced or she was a replacement?

Many posters have already given you their opinion on this. 

And you've refuted every single one.  

 

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3 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said:

Many posters have already given you their opinion on this. 

And you've refuted every single one.  

 

I haven't refuted anyone. I'm just saying it seems weird

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3 minutes ago, MalBA said:

I haven't refuted anyone. I'm just saying it seems weird

I don't think you understand what "refute" means if you honestly believe that. 

And if it seems weird to you, so what? Life goes on. Let it seem weird to you. 

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7 minutes ago, MalBA said:

You actually believe a guy calling an old crush moon or venus is legit?

He's not calling an old crush these names.  He is calling his new GF these terms of endearment. 

You had a perfectly swell relationship while you were together.  You are not together anymore & he has a new GF. 

What is you want here?  His relationship with you has run it's course.  It was fun while it lasted but it's over.  

You would do better to focus on your art then to keep worrying about his social media, what he calls his new GF or at what point she met his mother vs when you were introduced.  

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29 minutes ago, MalBA said:

This meant he loved me more?

You don't seem to be getting it.  Lots of people in this thread have given you advice, and you are not listening to any of it. You just keep going around in circles saying the same things over and over.  There's something here that's just not clicking.  I think you should get yourself into therapy.

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1 minute ago, d0nnivain said:

He's not calling an old crush these names.  He is calling his new GF these terms of endearment. 

You had a perfectly swell relationship while you were together.  You are not together anymore & he has a new GF. 

What is you want here?  His relationship with you has run it's course.  It was fun while it lasted but it's over.  

You would do better to focus on your art then to keep worrying about his social media, what he calls his new GF or at what point she met his mother vs when you were introduced.  

These terms of endearment are related to looks aren't they.? Moon and venus are considered beautiful.. 

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3 minutes ago, MalBA said:

These terms of endearment are related to looks aren't they.? Moon and venus are considered beautiful.. 

How scary is your obsession with her/him to you?

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57 minutes ago, kendahke said:

He likes his chicken seasoned...

What does this mean, is it an inside joke? 

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5 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

How scary is your obsession with her/him to you?

There is no obsession 

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1 minute ago, MalBA said:

There is no obsession 

A doctor could evaluate for that or pathological jealousy and perhaps help with medical therapy and supportive talk therapy. Living your life tormenting yourself over an ex and a women you are envious of is not worth it when help is available. It could also help with your self respect and self esteem so you could redirect your attention to your own life, friends, family and interests rather than scouring their social media all day..

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46 minutes ago, MalBA said:

You actually believe a guy calling an old crush moon or venus is legit?

Moon is emotion = love    

Venus is beauty - he thinks she's beautiful

moon/venus means I love you beautiful one.

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1 minute ago, stillafool said:

Moon is emotion = love    

Venus is beauty - he thinks she's beautiful

moon/venus means I love you beautiful one.

This is too much . Sounds cringey sorry

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20 minutes ago, MalBA said:

This is too much . Sounds cringey sorry

You should provide them with a list of non-cringey, MalBA-approved nicknames. 

They could probably really use your help. 

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42 minutes ago, MalBA said:

This is too much . Sounds cringey sorry

I agree but don't tell me I'm not the one chanting moon/venus but she probably loves it.

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1 hour ago, MalBA said:

These terms of endearment are related to looks aren't they.? Moon and venus are considered beautiful.. 

 

45 minutes ago, MalBA said:

This is too much . Sounds cringey sorry

I answered your question but I see above you already knew what it was about.  If it's cringe worthy to you stop repeating it.

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44 minutes ago, MalBA said:

This is too much . Sounds cringey sorry

The sad part is they are not even thinking about you no less obsessing stalking analyzing judging etc.

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