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Redhead14 Established Member

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I can't believe this thread is still being "entertained" :)  I just took a quick peek. 

OP, if the guy loved you, he'd be with you.  Men don't leave women they love -- not for big or bigger boobs, not for sex, not for anything.   He wasn't that into you.  Game over.

 

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5 hours ago, Redhead14 said:

I can't believe this thread is still being "entertained" :)  I just took a quick peek. 

OP, if the guy loved you, he'd be with you.  Men don't leave women they love -- not for big or bigger boobs, not for sex, not for anything.   He wasn't that into you.  Game over.

 

He wasn't that into me yet he was pitting pics as wallpaper, screensaver, profile pic and flying to see me and sex with me right?

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@MalBA I'm sure he was into you at one point.   But he's not anymore.  

Time to move on.

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2 minutes ago, basil67 said:

@MalBA I'm sure he was into you at one point.   But he's not anymore.  

Time to move on.

So when he was into me how did he love her? Thats what they all claim.

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Sometimes people can hold on to old love for many years.  New ones can come and go and burn brightly for a short while but the old love lingers.  

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2 minutes ago, basil67 said:

Sometimes people can hold on to old love for many years.  New ones can come and go and burn brightly for a short while but the old love lingers.  

But he himself had issues and walked away and got with me?

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And then decided he wanted her after all.     You were fun sex and good times.   

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1 hour ago, MalBA said:

But he himself had issues and walked away and got with me?

You're going in circles here, OP. 

Everyone's just repeating themselves at this point, because you keep asking the same things over and over. 

Has this thread and the feedback you've gotten been remotely helpful? 

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@MalBA There are things in life which don't make sense and which we don't understand.   This is particularly the case when it comes to interpersonal relationships.   All we can do is accept what is and move on.   One day, you'll look back on this and wonder why you cared so much.

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1 hour ago, ExpatInItaly said:

You're going in circles here, OP. 

Everyone's just repeating themselves at this point, because you keep asking the same things over and over. 

Has this thread and the feedback you've gotten been remotely helpful? 

You mean they had unfinished business?

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Wiseman2 Established Member

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3 hours ago, MalBA said:

Thats what they all claim.

Who are "they"?

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1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

Who are "they"?

Posters here

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8 minutes ago, MalBA said:

Posters here

What about your real life people?

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31 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

What about your real life people?

My female friends hate his gf too

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8 minutes ago, MalBA said:

My female friends hate his gf too

Hop out of the litter box and start dating other guys.

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6 hours ago, MalBA said:

He wasn't that into me yet he was pitting pics as wallpaper, screensaver, profile pic and flying to see me and sex with me right?

Nope.  He didn't have the better option available so you would do for now.  Sex doesn't mean love.

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3 hours ago, MalBA said:

You mean they had unfinished business?

Yes. You keep asking the same things; sometimes the wording is different, but the underlying question is the same and the responses are the same. 

Are you actually reflecting on the input, or just interested in challenging anything that is contrary to what you want to hear?

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7 hours ago, MalBA said:

He wasn't that into me yet he was pitting pics as wallpaper, screensaver, profile pic and flying to see me and sex with me right?

At the time he was dating you, he liked you just fine.  Your relationship ended.  He started dating her.  His relationship with her involves meeting the family much earlier then he introduced you & calling her pet names.  

Whatever he had with you is OVER.  Now he's on to the next phase of his life.  Whether his relationship with her is better, worse or just different he is no longer in a relationship with you.   The fact your female friends don't like your EX's new GF doesn't matter.  They don't get a say in his life any more than you do.  They are your friends so they are loyal to you.  It's not like their opinions are unbiased. 

In the long run, what difference does it make?  Your EX is not coming back to you. The only question is how long are you going to continue to waste bemoaning this? 

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9 hours ago, MalBA said:

So when he was into me how did he love her? Thats what they all claim.

Ask him, he's the one with the answer.  You sound like another poster who comes here asking the same questions over and over and not accepting answers.  I'm going to look for those threads to refer you to. 

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3 hours ago, MalBA said:

My female friends hate his gf too

I doubt she cares.  She isn't dating them.

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OP, please stop being in-denial.

Jealousy and bitterness is not helping you get over him. 

Please acknowledge that their relevancy to you is non-existent, as is your relevancy to them.

You can judge him and his new girlfriend all you want but they sound happy in their current state, it's about time you do as well.

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Ask him, he's the one with the answer.  You sound like another poster who comes here asking the same questions over and over and not accepting answers.  I'm going to look for those threads to refer you to. 

and I thought I was the only one thinking this.

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5 hours ago, kendahke said:

and I thought I was the only one thinking this.

Add me to that list, too. 

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7 hours ago, d0nnivain said:

At the time he was dating you, he liked you just fine.  Your relationship ended.  He started dating her.  His relationship with her involves meeting the family much earlier then he introduced you & calling her pet names.  

Whatever he had with you is OVER.  Now he's on to the next phase of his life.  Whether his relationship with her is better, worse or just different he is no longer in a relationship with you.   The fact your female friends don't like your EX's new GF doesn't matter.  They don't get a say in his life any more than you do.  They are your friends so they are loyal to you.  It's not like their opinions are unbiased. 

In the long run, what difference does it make?  Your EX is not coming back to you. The only question is how long are you going to continue to waste bemoaning this? 

They were his friends too.and he used to hook up with 1 of them.

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3 minutes ago, MalBA said:

They were his friends too.and he used to hook up with 1 of them.

Why did you even post here if you are going to completely ignore 95% of what people are saying to you?

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