xWanderer Posted August 5, 2020 Share Posted August 5, 2020 There's a PT fitness instructor never seen him until now. I'm not his client. Never payed too much attention to him don't see him around although he's there few years. Now we have book session in the gym he checks the names after couple days he was like "no no no don't tell me" tried to guess got it right. I listening to see if he did it to others behind me he didn't. Hadn't seen him in a week and as soon as he saw me like said name in enthusiastic way. All of the PTs do the checking names none of them act like that. . Today in morning went quickly to shop not awake long saw him on the other side of the road think he looked over but I avoided half asleep. Later went gym didn't see him until in the gym he was training a client. Caught few glances as in line of sight but not too much as he was busy and I was focused on what I was doing. After I'd finished training as leaving down the stairs he was coming up he was like how are you smiling i said hiya back. None of the other PTs/instructors are like this with me or don't even say hello. Or remember my name either even seeing some a lot . He seems to be making extra effort to remember. Getting a feeling he may be attracted to me or he's being extra friendlier. he's not like this with others i've overhearing to see if he talks to same way to people in front or behind me he doesn't do the same with those. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 5, 2020 Share Posted August 5, 2020 What you do know is that you're attracted to him and he has not asked for your number, coffee or a date. Link to post Share on other sites
Author xWanderer Posted August 5, 2020 Author Share Posted August 5, 2020 20 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: What you do know is that you're attracted to him and he has not asked for your number, coffee or a date. Is he attracted? still early days barely know him get feeling he might he doesn't seem like that with others. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 5, 2020 Share Posted August 5, 2020 (edited) Well not everyone who is a bit friendly is after you. Since you are attracted to him, ask him to go for coffee. If he declines you have your answer. If he agrees, you can take it from there m. Are other women at this gym hitting on him? Edited August 5, 2020 by Wiseman2 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author xWanderer Posted August 6, 2020 Author Share Posted August 6, 2020 15 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Well not everyone who is a bit friendly is after you. Since you are attracted to him, ask him to go for coffee. If he declines you have your answer. If he agrees, you can take it from there m. Are other women at this gym hitting on him? Not that I've seen he doesn't act like how he is with me to others Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 6, 2020 Share Posted August 6, 2020 does he undress you with his eyeballs? Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 No, he's not attracted or interested in any way. Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Maybe he is or maybe you're seeing what you want to see. Impossible for us to say here on an anonymous forum. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 The op has a history of thinking any guy she comes across is attracted to her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 I think people in service jobs tend to be friendlier with people they get a positive reaction from. They mirror behaviour. For instance guy on table 6, guy on table 9... Guy on table 6 smiles and is chatty, waitress chats and smiles back. Guy in table 9 is curt and polite only, waitress is curt and polite back. Who is she attracted to? Hard to say, we may guess table 6, but it may in fact be table 9 or neither in reality... Link to post Share on other sites
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