What to do?

[Deuina]

Me and my boyfriend are living a long distance relationship. We have met in person and I have met his family. Last night he told me that his little brother was using his phone while he was sleeping. I got really mad. I've sent him personal pictures, me on underwear, on lingerie etc, and personal messages as well. I would never want anyone else to see those photos excpet him or read those messages. I'm very angry and don't know what to do. I don't expect my boyfriend to show his girlfriend's body or messages to the others, even though he didn't do it intentionaly, because he got in his phone while he was sleeping. But he could use a passcode and also tell his brother that what is personal is personal and no one else can touch it. I'm kind of embarrased.

[Wiseman2]

20 minutes ago, Deuina said:

I got really mad. I've sent him personal pictures, me on underwear, on lingerie etc, and personal messages as well.

I'm very angry and don't know what to do. 

I'm kind of embarrased.

Sorry to hear this. Never send anything you don't want going viral on the internet in a nanosecond.

Once you hit "send" you relinquish control of your content.

Be angry at yourself for  sexting.  It sounds like LDRs are not working for you. Dump this guy is you can't trust him.

Edited August 8, 2020 by Wiseman2

[chillii]

So wth can we say , ooops.

[d0nnivain]

Once you send that stuff it's quasi public with the potential for it to actually be passed around.  You should have been cognizant of that before you transmitted the material.  In some jurisdictions underage girls who sent racy photos like that of themselves were charged with the distribution of kiddie porn.  

Now that you have learned your BF shares his phone you either need to stop sending this stuff or you & your BF need to find a way to protect your stuff.  Either way you have to assume his phone is NOT private.