reilian Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 I wanted to give online dating a try hence I installed one, Tinder. I happen to match with this guy from Auckland, NZ who happens to be a Chinese guy living abroad. We hit it off pretty well, he was really kind, and we had a lot in common (because he also likes anime and food). We talked about our favorite ones and recommended each other of the good ones. I’m not fond of stereotypes in dating because I know fully well that one thing doesn’t mean true to the other (referring to dating guys). Well, uhmm he was quite fast and direct. He truly showed his intention (courting me) and that’s within a week.... I mean do Chinese guys tend to act that fast?? Adding to that, he was really kind (I can attest to that) and he never forgets to message me after his work. Actually, we became official just the day before yesterday, he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. So, I just wanna ask if Chinese guys are just fast and straightforward when it comes to relationship, like is it a normal dating norm?? Just need some advice on this Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 I was alarmed at the title of your post, and then wondered what sorts of stereotypes were going to be included... but by the end you are absolved of most wrongdoing. I think, in the context of what you're asking... the human being you write about is indeed likely to have seemed especially 'direct' by your (and my) likely standards without it seeming a special cause for concern. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 How long have you been talking/dating? have you met in person? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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