Robbie12 Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 My boyfriend had a relationship with my older sister some years ago. They had numerous sex and fun though my sister was married in the year 2013-2015. I started dating this same man in 2018 but it was a distance relationship. We only met this year but I found out that my cousin who I introduced to my boyfriend within the time period I was away slept with him. I found out recently on his phone without any of them that’s involved said anything to me. I actually didn’t know he had a relationship with my sister and my cousin. I fell so much in love with him that I didn’t know what to do. My friends advices that I should go back to him because he told me he wants to marry me and he really loves me. I went back to him few weeks ago and I just saw again on his phone that he recorded a video of us having sex months ago without my consent and he has other sex videos with his exes on his phone. He actually told me he’s not about that life and even if he’ll record that he will ask for the woman’s consent, watch it with her and delete it together. Is he even right for me?help Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 For him it's the perfect Trifecta. All three women - same family. And BTW, don't let men you barely know take pictures or video of private moments. It's not only distasteful but will come back to haunt you. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 22 minutes ago, Robbie12 said: I actually didn’t know he had a relationship with my sister and my cousin. I just saw again on his phone that he recorded a video of us having sex months ago without my consent and he has other sex videos with his exes on his phone. Sorry to hear this. Who are these people that advise you to stay? Not sure what country you are in but what he did with the video is illegal. Also why date someone who makes the rounds with the women in your family? Leave him asap. he is quite sleazy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 Get that video deleted & stay away from him. He's not an honorable man. He will never be faithful to you. Don't marry him or even continue dating him 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Robbie12 Posted August 10, 2020 Author Share Posted August 10, 2020 1 hour ago, schlumpy said: For him it's the perfect Trifecta. All three women - same family. And BTW, don't let men you barely know take pictures or video of private moments. It's not only distasteful but will come back to haunt you. Hm, thank you very much Link to post Share on other sites
Author Robbie12 Posted August 10, 2020 Author Share Posted August 10, 2020 1 hour ago, d0nnivain said: Get that video deleted & stay away from him. He's not an honorable man. He will never be faithful to you. Don't marry him or even continue dating him Sure and thank you Link to post Share on other sites
Author Robbie12 Posted August 10, 2020 Author Share Posted August 10, 2020 1 hour ago, schlumpy said: For him it's the perfect Trifecta. All three women - same family. And BTW, don't let men you barely know take pictures or video of private moments. It's not only distasteful but will come back to haunt you. Thank you very much Link to post Share on other sites
JRabbit Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 2 hours ago, Robbie12 said: My boyfriend had a relationship with my older sister some years ago. They had numerous sex and fun though my sister was married in the year 2013-2015. I started dating this same man in 2018 but it was a distance relationship. We only met this year but I found out that my cousin who I introduced to my boyfriend within the time period I was away slept with him. I found out recently on his phone without any of them that’s involved said anything to me. I actually didn’t know he had a relationship with my sister and my cousin. I fell so much in love with him that I didn’t know what to do. My friends advices that I should go back to him because he told me he wants to marry me and he really loves me. I went back to him few weeks ago and I just saw again on his phone that he recorded a video of us having sex months ago without my consent and he has other sex videos with his exes on his phone. He actually told me he’s not about that life and even if he’ll record that he will ask for the woman’s consent, watch it with her and delete it together. Is he even right for me?help This is actually a crime, I would report him to the police personally. He is clearly also a liar. Run. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Robbie12 Posted August 10, 2020 Author Share Posted August 10, 2020 45 minutes ago, JRabbit said: This is actually a crime, I would report him to the police personally. He is clearly also a liar. Run. Hm, thanks Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 4 hours ago, Robbie12 said: He actually told me he’s not about that life and even if he’ll record that he will ask for the woman’s consent, watch it with her and delete it together. Did he ask for your consent before he recorded you two having sex? No. So it's doubtful he got their consent either. No, he is not the guy for you. Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 This guy sounds like a total sleaze bag. He's slept with two sisters and a cousin in the same family. That alone is very sleazy. Then the recording a video of you without your consent..... how can you trust this guy? Stay away from him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Robbie12 Posted August 10, 2020 Author Share Posted August 10, 2020 3 hours ago, stillafool said: Did he ask for your consent before he recorded you two having sex? No. So it's doubtful he got their consent either. No, he is not the guy for you. You’re right, thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Robbie12 Posted August 10, 2020 Author Share Posted August 10, 2020 41 minutes ago, ShyViolet said: This guy sounds like a total sleaze bag. He's slept with two sisters and a cousin in the same family. That alone is very sleazy. Then the recording a video of you without your consent..... how can you trust this guy? Stay away from him. Hm, thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 7 hours ago, Robbie12 said: Is he even right for me? Not in a million years. I'm taken aback that you have to even ask that kind of a question. He stopped being right from you when you found out he had sex wtih your sister... and then when you found out he had sex with your cousin. Who's next, your niece? Your mom? You can do better... stop being emotionally lazy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Robbie12 Posted August 11, 2020 Author Share Posted August 11, 2020 1 hour ago, kendahke said: Not in a million years. I'm taken aback that you have to even ask that kind of a question. He stopped being right from you when you found out he had sex wtih your sister... and then when you found out he had sex with your cousin. Who's next, your niece? Your mom? You can do better... stop being emotionally lazy. Felt this, thank you Link to post Share on other sites
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