lyndonjohnson Posted August 11, 2020 Share Posted August 11, 2020 Dear all, I am an incoming freshman at college at the age of 18. Over my high school years I have a very good female friend and in the recent months we became closer and closer. Nowadays we talk or facetime from waking up until one of us sleeps; we share every single thing in our lives and she even talks about sex and her period with me. We are very flirtatious together and we do stuff like sending each other selfies and complimenting each other a lot. We acknowledge that we mutually depend upon one another as much as soulmates do. She sends me regular updates in her life, like she's going to this place and buying that drink; she starts most conversations and facetime sessions with me. And I feel like I'm beginning to like her. What makes me very worried is that I feel like I am investing too much time in her. It certainly is sweet that we talk from waking up until one of sleeps but I feel like she is taking away too much time from me and I am growing too reliant on her. She is such a big part of my life and this is becoming worrisome since I feel like I am losing my emotional independence. I certainly would want to be together with her and am thinking about when to confess, but I think my independence is much more urgent. What advice would you give me? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 11, 2020 Share Posted August 11, 2020 (edited) Enjoy this friendship but report to college a single person. You have no idea how much your world is going to open up. Don't limit yourself to the girl back home Edited August 11, 2020 by d0nnivain 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 11, 2020 Share Posted August 11, 2020 Stop Facetiming this much. She'll get bored and friend zone you. Go for a walk and have ice cream with her. Ask her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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