Realitysux Posted August 11, 2020 Share Posted August 11, 2020 (edited) Why do people cyber stalk? I've been a victim of it and it's a horrible feeling. I know some post regularly, they have to throw in their cracks and advice at all times, I'm not even asking for it. How high would a person have to think of themselves, to spend so much time on someone else? Or how much is their own lives lacking? As an example, this one guy tells me to get a boyfriend, all day and everyday. Where does he find the time to get one himself and forget what I'm doing? Edited August 11, 2020 by Realitysux Link to post Share on other sites
Mystery4u Posted August 11, 2020 Share Posted August 11, 2020 Why do you care so much about where he gets the time instead of just blocking him? 3 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Realitysux Posted August 11, 2020 Author Share Posted August 11, 2020 Just now, Mystery4u said: Why do you care so much about where he gets the time instead of just blocking him? That's not my question Link to post Share on other sites
Mystery4u Posted August 11, 2020 Share Posted August 11, 2020 1 minute ago, Realitysux said: That's not my question And? Since when does a reply on a public forum have to only respond to a question that is asked? Nobody here knows why he does it, or where he gets the time to do it. Your question is moot. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Realitysux Posted August 11, 2020 Author Share Posted August 11, 2020 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Mystery4u said: And? Since when does a reply on a public forum have to only respond to a question that is asked? Nobody here knows why he does it, or where he gets the time to do it. Your question is moot. That's true, but it was my way if taking a jab at them. Anyone spending that much time on me, should put the effort into their own partners I didn't want this person's assistance. Edited August 11, 2020 by Realitysux 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted August 11, 2020 Share Posted August 11, 2020 2 hours ago, Realitysux said: Why do people cyber stalk? ... because YOU make it easy for them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Realitysux Posted August 11, 2020 Author Share Posted August 11, 2020 13 minutes ago, SincereOnlineGuy said: ... because YOU make it easy for them. You guys don't have your facts right at all. If some abuses you because they can, that's not right Link to post Share on other sites
JRabbit Posted August 11, 2020 Share Posted August 11, 2020 50 minutes ago, Realitysux said: You guys don't have your facts right at all. If some abuses you because they can, that's not right to be fair its not really abuse. They are right, block the person if they bother you, or tell them to stop asking you. It isn't cyber stalking to ask someone a question every day either. Annoying yes. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Realitysux Posted August 11, 2020 Author Share Posted August 11, 2020 24 minutes ago, JRabbit said: to be fair its not really abuse. They are right, block the person if they bother you, or tell them to stop asking you. It isn't cyber stalking to ask someone a question every day either. Annoying yes. That's fair. They did hack me but I should have blocked them. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted August 11, 2020 Share Posted August 11, 2020 (edited) People will do what they do for their own reasons. And often, we will never understand why they do it, so it's best to not waste our own head space trying to understand what we will never understand. Focus on what you can do to move on. On being proactive. Change your passwords, or if it's a more complex hacking, get advice on making your devices more secure. Don't worry about them - just make yourself safe. Edited August 11, 2020 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
snowcones Posted August 12, 2020 Share Posted August 12, 2020 #1 reason - They are BORED. Like really bored. #2 reason - It makes them feel good to go at you because nothing else is making them feel good. Once you realize that they are pathetic humans, then you can try to check them next time they go at you, but depending on deeply embedded they are in the reasons I stated above, they may not snap out of it, and when that happens, then you have to just block them. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Realitysux Posted August 12, 2020 Author Share Posted August 12, 2020 (edited) 3 hours ago, snowcones said: #1 reason - They are BORED. Like really bored. #2 reason - It makes them feel good to go at you because nothing else is making them feel good. Once you realize that they are pathetic humans, then you can try to check them next time they go at you, but depending on deeply embedded they are in the reasons I stated above, they may not snap out of it, and when that happens, then you have to just block them. I realized something this morning, and that was how pathetic anyone who said yes, who posted ads, who tried to manipulate me on behalf of a man two provinces away, really are. The more I connect with myself and my goals in life, the more I realize that when someone has a women in their life, the do not look back at previous ones. You can't manipulate a women to get a boyfriend or to do anything so they were actually the ones with an issue. I took all the fault and blame and really believed that I deserved it. I thought well I'm ugly now, I'm kind of dumb, I don't have a nice personality, I don't have much going for me, and instead of making plans to change all that, I sat in bed, feeling hopeless about it. I went out and did stuff but everyone seemed so intuned with their lives and people and they were walking their dogs, and buying bananas. I can not pick out bananas. If I'm alone shopping then I don't buy bananas. Someone has to be with me to buy bananas cause do you buy green bananas or yellow bananas? Too yellow they go bad and green bananas ripe fast and go bad. Anyways, it wasn't all me. Edited August 12, 2020 by Realitysux Link to post Share on other sites
guest569 Posted August 27, 2020 Share Posted August 27, 2020 (edited) I always buy yellow bananas cause I like them a little over ripe. They're also good for smoothies and banana cakes. Under ripe bananas have no flavour and make me itchy. If i buy them green, they seem to turn rotten quickly anyway (except those that are meant to be green). It's personal preference though.. Figure out what you want and go get it. You got this! Cyber stalking is a terrible feeling. I would just make sure everything is protected, change passwords regularly, and try to take a break from any non essential stuff like social media. It's an instant weight off the shoulders. Those negative self thoughts are not true.. But yes it can make everything including buying bananas difficult when your confident has been hit with such force. Edited August 27, 2020 by smiley1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyM Posted August 27, 2020 Share Posted August 27, 2020 Stalking by definition means following someone in person literally. I hate when ordinary words are misused that makes something look worse Link to post Share on other sites
Idontknow100 Posted August 27, 2020 Share Posted August 27, 2020 17 minutes ago, LuckyM said: Stalking by definition means following someone in person literally. I hate when ordinary words are misused that makes something look worse Cyber stalking is when someone follows you online and uses places you are to put you down, harass, and bully. Nice try down playing this lucky! It's a forum btw. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Idontknow100 Posted August 27, 2020 Share Posted August 27, 2020 2 hours ago, smiley1 said: I always buy yellow bananas cause I like them a little over ripe. They're also good for smoothies and banana cakes. Under ripe bananas have no flavour and make me itchy. If i buy them green, they seem to turn rotten quickly anyway (except those that are meant to be green). It's personal preference though.. Figure out what you want and go get it. You got this! Cyber stalking is a terrible feeling. I would just make sure everything is protected, change passwords regularly, and try to take a break from any non essential stuff like social media. It's an instant weight off the shoulders. Those negative self thoughts are not true.. But yes it can make everything including buying bananas difficult when your confident has been hit with such force. My confidence was hit with such force, any advice for me and op on how to rebuild it. Link to post Share on other sites
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