Laurabee22 Posted August 12, 2020 Share Posted August 12, 2020 (edited) I have dated this Taurus man on and off in the past. The timing was just never really right for us. We recently started connecting again and i like him more than I ever have. We have hung out 3 times since reconnecting. My concern is I always have to initiate the texts. He always responds pretty much right away and we will have good convos. But he never texts me first. When we are together he deff shows me he is more than interested. What’s the deal? Edited August 12, 2020 by Laurabee22 Typo Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 12, 2020 Share Posted August 12, 2020 Why were things on/off? That's not a good sign Don't worry about texting. Pay attention to how things are in person. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Laurabee22 Posted August 13, 2020 Author Share Posted August 13, 2020 Thanks for the reply! We just were going through different points our lives back then school etc.. Link to post Share on other sites
Angelle Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 I'm kind of involved with one, too. He doesn't always respond right away, but we aren't actually in a relationship. He told me that he reads everything that I write. He does initiate, though, if I'm quiet for a while. I think he would do so more often, if we were in a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Trail Blazer Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 This man being "Taurus" is relevant... how? Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 (edited) Seems to be so many poor souls following all the internet instructions these days if forums are anything to go by, maybe he's just being one of those, don't do this don't do that. Doubt though taurus is much to do with it my ex w was Taurus and there was none of that bs. To my mind, you've been on off and had bad timing in the past which aren't usually a very good sign or enough to stop things if there is all the goods there , you'll work around it. Personally, got my doubts about the whole thing tbh and although he puts in effort in person l dunno , sounds a bit half hearted to me given the other stuff. Anyway, ask him what you asked here, see what he says. Edited August 13, 2020 by chillii Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 Taurus has nothing to do with it. He's simply not sufficiently interested in you to think of reaching out. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 Stop chasing him, he isn't interested enough in you to even initiate a text. Yes he likes the attention in person, but he cant even be bothered sending you a 3 sec text so where do you think you are in his list of priorities? Too many women wear themselves out, trying to heat up luke-warm men. It is upsetting and soul destroying and will kill your self esteem and extinguish your joie de vivre. You will then become addicted to any small crumb he throws in your direction. "OMG he sent me a text, he MUST love me..." Don't be that woman. Don't play that game Don't waste your time. Find a man who matches your enthusiasm. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 Make sure it's not one sided, so you don't get hurt. Slow down on the texting Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 5 hours ago, basil67 said: Taurus has nothing to do with it. He's simply not sufficiently interested in you to think of reaching out. But he apparently enjoys your company when you are together. If you want to gauge his interest, stop calling the man... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Laurabee22 Posted August 13, 2020 Author Share Posted August 13, 2020 Ok thanks for the input everyone. Trying really hard not to be that girl. I guess I mentioned his sign because I feel a lot them show you how they feel and not through text. We are not in a relationship yet just hanging out for right now. I think I hurt him in the past by going off to school etc as I’m a lot younger so maybe he is guarding a lot? Or like some of you said maybe just not that interested. Yes 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Laurabee22 Posted August 13, 2020 Author Share Posted August 13, 2020 Also I have brought this up lightly and he said he just has a hard time communicating and he is interested...always available when I suggest a date and time 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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