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Should I feel bad and not be angry?


Haleyxmouse

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So I have this friend that I’m not gonna lie we’ve always had kind of a frenemy sort of relationship but recently it’s grown to become more genuine. I ended up setting her up with this guy we both worked with and they got in a relationship. While me and the guy werent friends before, we ended up becoming friends. Recently he admitted to me that he decided he wasn’t ready to be in a relationship and wanted to work more on himself and that he wanted out of the relationship. They dated for a month before he broke up with her. He told me it was a right person, wrong time situation and he believed she would start petty arguments for nothing. She was always complaining about how she didn’t want to be with him and he was ugly but would tried calling me crying and flipped the conversation making it seem like she never said any of it and they weren’t on the same page. I told her I never wanted to be in the middle of anything but when she would flirt with other guys and when he told me he was gonna break up with her later that night but just to keep our conversation a secret at least in my opinion. She would always get jealous about him and other girls and even the fact that we became friendly and started watching a Netflix show. She hated the fact that he would hang out with other girls but she would be entertaining other guys. She also accused him of liking me and trying to hit on me after they broke up even if it totally wasn’t true.  It’s been A week since then and she keeps talking about him and dragged me to another city (that I didn’t want to go to because of work but still went) and ended up ditching me for a guy. Like do I sound crazy for being slightly annoyed about the situation and her ditching me in a foreign city I didn’t want to go to in the first place and should I feel bad for not telling her about the conversation I had with her ex?

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You are too invested.  Let it go.  Stop paying attention to what she's doing & expect her to flake on you when you are together.  

Let it roll off you like water off a duck's back.  

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You shouldn't have gotten in the middle of their relationship.  And it was weird and inappropriate of him to tell you that he was going to break up with her before he actually broke up with her.  What was the point of that?  Don't let her drag you in the middle of her drama.

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