kendahke Posted August 25, 2020 Share Posted August 25, 2020 (edited) If the conversations were innocent, fun banter between buddies, she wouldn't have snatched the phone away from you because there's nothing to hide in that. Her behavior is what is showcasing her guilt. And it's not like you went in her purse and got it while she was in the shower and she busted you... She handed it to you the snatched it away when she remembered she'd been talking to him on a nightly basis and didn't want you to read their conversations and figure out for yourself how long this has been going on. Shay. Dee. A. F. You need to reconsider the wisdom in being with someone who, as you have just found out, you really didn't know. In a million years, I'll bet her carrying on an emotional affair with another man behind your back was the last thing you expected from her. Let her go be with him if she willing to risk her relationship with you for an entire year--pretty much says that she was never fully invested in what you two had, no matter what her tears say--and let's be clear here: tears are a manipulation tactic to regain the ground she lost, not that she was really worried about losing you in the first place. If she was, this dude wouldn't even be in the picture. Edited August 25, 2020 by kendahke Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted August 25, 2020 Share Posted August 25, 2020 1 hour ago, kendahke said: You need to reconsider the wisdom in being with someone who, as you have just found out, you really didn't know. In a million years, I'll bet her carrying on an emotional affair with another man behind your back was the last thing you expected from her. Let her go be with him if she willing to risk her relationship with you for an entire year--pretty much says that she was never fully invested in what you two had, no matter what her tears say--and let's be clear here: tears are a manipulation tactic to regain the ground she lost, not that she was really worried about losing you in the first place. If she was, this dude wouldn't even be in the picture. Very good Kendahke, Very Good. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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