Author Cheaterinchiefv10 Posted August 23, 2020 Author Share Posted August 23, 2020 I think you are right and the damage might already be done with new girl. She broke up after the second cheating with me and today was the first time in a week she said let's get back together. Then had a fantasy about a three way with family vibe girl this morning. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cheaterinchiefv10 Posted August 23, 2020 Author Share Posted August 23, 2020 It seems I talk to new girl every day and don't call family vibe girl but I don't know if new girl can handle what's happened and I'm going hour by hour day by day trying to see how this plays out Link to post Share on other sites
central Posted August 23, 2020 Share Posted August 23, 2020 Perhaps neither of these women is a good match. You can keep contact with family girl's son if she'll allow it. And you DO need to establish boundaries of some kind, otherwise you'll be used and dumped and may lose seeing the child as well. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cheaterinchiefv10 Posted August 23, 2020 Author Share Posted August 23, 2020 (edited) I have considered that neither is good after the mess that I have created. It also seems I am putting the family girl second and working with the new girl to find a solution to this. It's hard to put family girl second because I loved her for five years and am not used to doing that. Another frustrateing thing is she just came into my life again and I haven't even had time to feel out what this poly thing she is offering feels like. And I would hurt the new girl if I went and explored it but it is very appealing and I'm curious Edited August 23, 2020 by Cheaterinchiefv10 Link to post Share on other sites
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