u_would_b_lonley_too Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 I would really like to do somthing romantic for my husband does anyone have any ideas?
Mary3 Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 Lay down on a fur rug wearing absolutely nothing but a big pink bow and tell him YOU are his present
Author u_would_b_lonley_too Posted October 12, 2005 Author Posted October 12, 2005 aww aint that sweet! any more cute ideas?
elijahBailey Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 aww aint that sweet! any more cute ideas? handcuffs, whips ? Lay down on a fur rug wearing absolutely nothing but a big pink bow and tell him YOU are his present nah, that's lame.... and old. Definitely doesn't work for me. Think bad. start the whole routine by sayin' ..... thru clenched teeth.... "I just want you to f*ck me hard". Limpy's gonna jump to full attention before you can count to five And oh... remember that men don't want it too romantic. We're always thinkin' when we can get to the booty.
born a redhead Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 how about a candle lit dinner ( his favorite dish) and afterwards hand him the control and tell him you will watch whatever he wants to watch with no complaints. i did that and he loved it:love:
Author u_would_b_lonley_too Posted October 13, 2005 Author Posted October 13, 2005 handcuffs, whips ? nah, that's lame.... and old. Definitely doesn't work for me. Think bad. First thanks for the replies. But I thought since you was a man, maybe you could help me out. Ok heres the story (again): Me and my husband were together for 3 years before we were married about 3 months ago. Weve ONLY had sex about 25 times the whole time weve been married,(we didnt before marriage). He will not (i guess i should say : Go down on me) He wont even french kiss me bc he thinks all of this is nasty. What would you (or anyone) think about this. Is there somthing wrong? Does all men go through this? HELP please!
Mary3 Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 I would have delved into that area before I got married ...( I respect you for choosing no sex before marriage however....)
elijahBailey Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 Ok heres the story (again): Me and my husband were together for 3 years before we were married about 3 months ago. Weve ONLY had sex about 25 times the whole time weve been married,(we didnt before marriage). He will not (i guess i should say : Go down on me) He wont even french kiss me bc he thinks all of this is nasty. What would you (or anyone) think about this. Is there somthing wrong? Does all men go through this? HELP please! wow, you sure he's straight? No, seriously, you've just been married for 3months? So, 3x30 / 25 .... so that's having sex an average of 3~4 days? hmm, I'm guessing he's not the horny type Are you his first? Is he the type that doesn't believe in pre-marital sex? Maybe because of religion? If so, then I guess it's normal.
Author u_would_b_lonley_too Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 Are you his first?QUOTE] Yes I am his first. Somthing I dont understand is when we would spend the night together before we were married, I would feel him get a hard on. Before we were married I did give him head, etc. But he never would me, Never has. He did tell me once that he has fingered a girl and didnt like it and almost ate her out but she skank. Do you think that could be the problem (a bad experience?) But what am i supposed to do about my own needs? Thanks for the advice.
Mary3 Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 Sorry but if a guy did not want to go down there I would quickly lose interest....bummer...
zblueye Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 I agree with "born a redhead". As I am a guy, I think it would be so romantic if I were suddenly brought back to a special memory of a dinner or a moment that connected us. Whatever it was when you both new that you were meant for eachother, or a vacation moment, or just a special day in your relationship, the first place you kissed, etc... Have fun, good luck. People love to be reminded of the good memories
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