MarilynMoss Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 So my husband historically has had a higher drive than me (I’m going thru menopause for the past couple of years). I am fine with sex 2-3 times per week. I am sexually adventurous but he likes to think he is more than me. We’ve got sex toys (I have dildos and he has sex dolls). I had some minor surgery Thursday (3 days ago) with my OB/GYN and am supposed to refrain from sex for a week. My hubby of course is horny, so I agreed he should use his sex dolls (and I agreed to watch). So I’m on the bed with him and his dolls. He got on top me and was gyrating and making me get turned on. I told him to cut it out because I know I can’t have sex right now due to my surgery and it’s kind of cruel to do that to me. I told him to use the dolls and I’d be happy to watch. He then proceeded to make fun of me by saying “oh babe I’m so sorry u can’t do it right now. That’s too bad!” I think this was mean and I told him so. I didn’t appreciate him making fun of my not being able to get into sex for this week due to my surgery. He got mad that I was mad at him. Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 Is there a question in here? Do you need advice about something? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 Your husband sounds like a sadistic creep. Talk to your doctor about how he treats you. Also privately and confidentially, talk to a therapist about your marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 What's your question, OP? Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 You better watch out Marilyn. I see stories all the time about men falling in love with this new generation of plastic partners. They take them out for drives, picnics and one man took his silicon SO surfing. Pretty funny stuff to read about unless you are the wife sitting on the sidelines while the husband is getting it on with a likeness of his old girl friend who was the love of his life. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 I guess you should worry, when there are 3 places set for dinner... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
gamon Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 42 minutes ago, Haydn said: I guess you should worry, when there are 3 places set for dinner... Or if your husband is heavily engaged in conversation with the sex doll but suddenly stops talking when you enter the room. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 If they are the blow up type, make sure you don't have a cigarette after sex. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 2 hours ago, schlumpy said: You better watch out Marilyn. I see stories all the time about men falling in love with this new generation of plastic partners. They take them out for drives, picnics and one man took his silicon SO surfing. Pretty funny stuff to read about unless you are the wife sitting on the sidelines while the husband is getting it on with a likeness of his old girl friend who was the love of his life. Have you seen Lars and the Real Girl? Actually a pretty sweet movie. Sweet as in "awwww." Not sweet as in "suh-WEET!" 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 Get yourself a 6 ft. GI Joe doll and make his dolls jealous 🕺 2 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 I'm going to start thanking you every time you make me laugh since we no longer have a laugh reaction. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
endlessabyss Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 Cool story lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Watercolors Posted August 30, 2020 Share Posted August 30, 2020 Your husband's name isn't Lars, is it? 😆 Link to post Share on other sites
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