Ryan37 Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 I dated her for 2 years, i loved her i mean i still love her , everything was fine on the first 4 months then I got called form this guy he was saying I'm f***ing his girlfriend, i was confused so I asked who then he said her name. 5 minutes after that I got call form her she was saying don't believe him he was my ex . He did that so u leave me this and that I believe her and I ended up picking her up form middle of nowhere. I never ask her about it. Everything went back to normal. In march 2019 I got in fight with someone who disrespecting my friend so got arrested i was in jail for night and I got belI out with conditions. And took 6 months until everything was done.( In the mean while I was still saying her was taking to her on phone everyday) In November 2019 i was a free man and I promised her that everything will be fine as we were, and I was trying my best to make up to her but in the hand I had get back to my feed I needed my job back and had applied for school. I wasn't able to give her a lot of attention i was trying my best. In January 2020 we were cool again everything was getting better she was telling how much she loves me and kiss me and everything I was doing the same. I was supporting with everything ( she was a miss before I met her i help her grow up, get job , start school, get new place everything) so everything was kind of fine until July so she called and said we need talk today right now I was working that day told my employer I have go. So we meet up she staring saying that im don't giving her enough attention and this and that so we need to take break to see how thing goes ( i love her so i was confused about everything and why ) I said ok . So a week passed by we were still talking but not as much . She called me can we meet up i said yes, so we meet up we had dinner she start saying she love me and she can't be without me so let get back together. I wanted it too i said yes. Everything was perfect until August 27 2020 I was on her house we were watching a movie she left her and she went to get food or something I don't remember. I saw someone was keep texting. So I got wondering who is that so I open her phone saw all kind messages for this guy. She was cheating on with him for five and half months. I was crazy mad I told her let got for walk so she came i confess her she start crying and she was holding me not to leave i push her and left i didn't want to hurt her. I was hurt and mad. I blocked her form everything and she was still calling me all night ending up answering to phone she was crying and saying he didn't mean anything for her all she want is me she made mistakes plz give me another chance. I said no i give u a lot of choices and trun of my phone then i didn't hear anything form her for 3 days. She called me again that she wants to be with me . What should I do. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 You already broke up with her because she cheated on you, lied to you & basically played you for a fool. A few tears & more lies from her is no reason to go back on that very sound decision. Get an STD test. Grieve the loss of your relationship but move on. 3 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 Sorry to hear this. Stay away from her. She seems like trouble. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted September 3, 2020 Share Posted September 3, 2020 Stay broken up. You can't trust her and she has no respect for you or your former relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted September 3, 2020 Share Posted September 3, 2020 You put everything into this relationship and in return she cheated on you the entire relationship. Stay broken up man. She will not change her ways if you stay with her. She needs to fIx herself. Link to post Share on other sites
Mystery4u Posted September 3, 2020 Share Posted September 3, 2020 Trust is like a mirror. Once it's broken, it can be put back together, but it will NEVER be the same again. Do not take her back. You will never trust her again. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted September 3, 2020 Share Posted September 3, 2020 (edited) 20 hours ago, Ryan37 said: What should I do. turn your phone back off and stop taking her calls. Block her number. Her tears are called "chump manipulation".... they work on those who doubt they did the right thing in letting her go and take her back so she can play them out yet again. She doesn't mean anything of what she's saying to you---her behavior should be screaming that at you by now. Edited September 3, 2020 by kendahke Link to post Share on other sites
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