Can I get her back :

[JollyRancher]

Hello there everyone 
So my girlfriend of 4yrs left me roughly 6weeks ago now ill let you in on whats happened etc ..on my bday she bought me lots of nice things and did a lot for me and she felt I didn't appreciate it and we argued about various things and from there 4 days later she ended it with me obviously it was a number of things mainly me never been appreciative of things, not treating her to things as she did me, not been loving enough and mainly she felt I hated her been with her friends when in all honesty I did not I just always felt she prioritized them over me but I was never jealous or anything.
We have spoken every week since for 6wk not always positively mostly badly as it has been me (wrongly and stupidly I know) begging for her back with no luck. She has seen me at least once a week only because I have begged her to not because she wants to and it is only for 30mins and when we meet she's actually nice and kisses me and talks to me nicely and texts for few days after but then she turns back horrid after few days. Last Wednesday she met me for 30 mins and we agreed it would be the last time we saw each other as it cant carry on if she doesn't want me so i left her car and that was it we said bye no more contact then 30min later she messaged me saying hi and said " i love you " so we kept talking then Friday she met me for an hour in car as she wont come inside but was really lovely kissing me having a laugh etc then we left then later on that night she met me in car again and we just chilled for 30 mins having a laugh kissing etc then she said Sunday she would come round for pizza and chill for a bit and cuddle so I thought great this could be starting to turn round but of course Sunday came and she let me down totally changed and didnt want to see me as she keeps doing after a few days of been good.
As of yesterday we cut all contact as she said she wont get back with me and to tell you the truth already im dying inside , I know millions of couples have got back together even after worse things than this e.g cheating so is there any possible way I can get her back? What more can I do apart from leave her alone as shes asked for as I know if you just leave someone they will go I just really want her back and I do not know what I can do more I have tried everything past 6wk and nothings worked. Do I just leave her be and hope she comes round?
Please help and advice would be very helpful.

[kendahke]

1 hour ago, JollyRancher said:

Do I just leave her be and hope she comes round?

Yes leave her be and extinguish that hope that she comes around. Move on.

Next girl, learn to treat her better than you did her, else you'll find yourself in the same predicament.

[TeddyBundy1993]

Expecting a ex back is the worst of all hopes. Yeah couples do get back together everyday, but it doesn't mean your ex gonna return as well. I mean set everything aside man, look at her actions and what she has told you. She said she isnt getting back with you.  Write this sentences somewhere where you can remind yourself. I know you are dying inside,  that's what we all experience when the person we love leave or decides to move on without us, we die inside for a while, its death of emotions memories together. My suggestion to you is move on, strict no contact. If she wanna change her mind or wants you back she knows where to contact you. But buddy stop being her buddy whom she can cuddle kiss meet when she wants. No contact will kill Hopes of her returning.  Dont expect her back once a women makes up her mind its permanent. I m sorry if this hurts you, it's life and s*** happens.