Can't stop myself!

[Jklivin]

Hi, everyone

i work as a secretary/admin assistant in a small company and love the job!  Only four women work here and the rest are men - perfect for me!  Just love men and consider myself promiscuous.  Have worked here nearly two years and have had relationships with three of the guys, one still on-going.  Love flirting, find it ridiculously easy to get men excited and have had many fun times in the office after hours!  Thing is, one of the managers has started showing interest and he’s married (the others weren’t) and I don’t know how I feel about it.

We flirt a lot and I have started to wear the sorts of clothes I know he likes (silky stuff, tight skirts - also know he loves lip gloss on a woman so I make sure I’m made up just how he likes).  I can tell he has been getting aroused near me and it’s really difficult not to just pull him into the cupboard and have my way with him, I’m thinking of nothing else all day, every day, even at weekends!!!  He is such a beautiful man and I want his body so much.  He says his marriage is rubbish and he’d treat me well.  He is a bit higher up in the company than the others I’ve had, but a lovely man.

So thing is a) not sure if it’s a good idea if he’s married b) also he’s higher up in company and could get me fired c) might get reputation (although I don’t know if I care so much about this!!).

im just finding these leasons so sexy and  amazing and fulfilling I can’t really stop myself.  Men seem so easy to seduce!  How do I stop myself?!?!  I want to let nature take its course but never cheated with a married man before.

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[mark clemson]

18 minutes ago, Jklivin said:

So thing is a) not sure if it’s a good idea if he’s married b) also he’s higher up in company and could get me fired c) might get reputation (although I don’t know if I care so much about this!!).

This is your "logical brain" processing this. It would probably be wise to listen to it. Screwing co-workers generally is a recipe for trouble and that goes double when they're also married. As exciting as it probably feels this almost certainly doesn't end well. It COULD end QUITE badly for one or both of you, as you allude to above. Seems like you'd do great simply going to a bar.

[Caauug]

On 9/12/2020 at 4:06 PM, Jklivin said:

Have worked here nearly two years and have had relationships with three of the guys, one still on-going.  

You fit right in there.

On 9/12/2020 at 4:06 PM, Jklivin said:

c) might get reputation (although I don’t know if I care so much about this!!).

I would think you have already achieved that!!! No worries there.

On 9/12/2020 at 4:06 PM, Jklivin said:

 I can tell he has been getting aroused near me and it’s really difficult not to just pull him into the cupboard and have my way with him, I’m thinking of nothing else all day, every day, even at weekends!!!

You have also done this with the other three guys?

On 9/12/2020 at 4:06 PM, Jklivin said:

 I want to let nature take its course but never cheated with a married man before.

You appear to be doing well on the carousel so far, why stop now?

 

LOL....It takes all kinds of different people to make life interesting....  

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[Bittersweetie]

"Can't stop yourself?" Yes, you absolutely can. You just choose not to do so. Own your choices like an adult.

[EPC82]

His marriage isn't rubbish. I wouldn't use that fact to help make a decision about sleeping with him or not. Make you decision always assuming he is never leaving her. 

He will be more interesting to you than the others because we all loooove the ones we can't have. You might also develop a desire to have him want you more than her and want him to think of you while he's with her. These are intoxicating feelings and thoughts. 

Proceed with great caution because its you who will end up hurt if you get in over your head. I'm speaking from deeply personal experience. 

Best of luck. 

[DKT3]

In less than 2 years you're working on your 4th sexual relationship in the work place? You need to figure that out first.

[Allupinnit]

You ALREADY have a bad reputation at work.  You don't think the guys all huddle and talk about you and what you do with each of them?  You're the butt of their jokes.

[BaileyB]

If you value and enjoy your job, you had best change your tune. Because, you are about to find yourself unemployed if this continues...

[pepperbird2]

Even if you don't lose your job, you'll lose he respect of your colleagues. If you've worked hard to be taken seriously, why would you want this?

[Watercolors]

On 9/12/2020 at 4:06 PM, Jklivin said:

im just finding these leasons so sexy and  amazing and fulfilling I can’t really stop myself.  Men seem so easy to seduce!  How do I stop myself?!?!  I want to let nature take its course but never cheated with a married man before.

Such a small office. Do you care that everyone, including the women there, talk about you? Because I guarantee you that they all gossip about you behind your back. You've slept with 3 of the 7 men there. Don't think for a second, they haven't compared notes about you. 

Since you value your sexuality, and you get off on being promiscuous, I seriously think you should pursue a more "entertainment" line of work. Not as a stripper, but maybe a BDSM consultant. At least that way, you get paid for your sexuality instead of exploited for it. 

I can't believe the company owner hasn't fired you yet and wants to have an affair with you. And that you're ok with it. 

Have you ever been in therapy for sex addiction? Maybe something to think about. Or, at least, a new line of employment where you can have all the sex you want with all the men you want and not lose your job over it.