my bf slept with many men unprotected and lied to me about it.

[Juliet2]

I hijacked his profile on Gay.com. He has slept with so many men.. He told me it was only 7...and always protected. Now i see the truth..So many men on Gay.com have indicated they were with my man!

 

I have been crying all day. He even made plans to meet one guy last week! My bf still maintains its a lie.....its not true... it wasn't him .. I am losing it... i can't handle much more. This Oct 12th is the worst day of my life.

Thank you for sharing it with me.

[quankanne]

((((hugs))))

 

I cannot begin to fathom your pain, Juliet ...

 

my immediate thought is that you get to a doctor and be tested for diseases, you cannot be too careful about that. I think this will give you a bit of peace of mind knowing you've got situation covered, though it may not solve your dilemma.

 

maybe it's time to break it off with this man, who doesn't seem to think there's anything wrong with his behavior, because you're being cheated out of an opportunity for a one-on-one relationship and because he is exhibiting a huge lack of respect for you and y'alls relationship.

 

things will improve, somehow, simply because it must.

 

you hang in there, kiddo ....

[Juliet2]

i am going to try a shower...i feel really dirty now. We were both tested over a month ago but i will go again. I hate everything i am learning but it is meant for me to know. I did pray for a sign..a way to tell if he was lying. I got my answer. God Bless.

[whichwayisup]

BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Give me 5 good reasons WHY you want to be with this guy? I can't even think of one!

[933KJL]

FOUL! The yellow flag has been thrown many times over.......Juliet, what other bizzarro fantasy can you come up with to feed your ego? Aliens?

 

Let's see in the past month, someone has offered to give you 2 million dollars to sleep with you. Your boyfriend raped you and you liked it. Your ex husband is paying you an astronomical amount of alimony, you attract bisexual men, your boss pays you to spend time with him and not for the work you do or don't do, and the morbidly out of control control freak boyfriend.

 

Just by putting a tilde (~) and an asterisk (*) before and after your name does not make your old fantasies go away.

[Juliet2]

Join Date: Jul 2004

Posts: 5,799

 

BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Give me 5 good reasons WHY you want to be with this guy?

1, I love him.

2, He loves me

3, Part of me will always wonder... was he telling the truth?

4, our love life is amazing

5, He behaves like he is so into me..calling 5-6 times a day. Helping me whenever I need help. He talks about "us" long term...He adores me.

[Juliet2]

I changed it abit to register my account. It did not work so i rejoined again..it said my previous name was taken so i modified it.

[HotCaliGirl]

FOUL! The yellow flag has been thrown many times over.......Juliet, what other bizzarro fantasy can you come up with to feed your ego? Aliens?

 

Let's see in the past month, someone has offered to give you 2 million dollars to sleep with you. Your boyfriend raped you and you liked it. Your ex husband is paying you an astronomical amount of alimony, you attract bisexual men, your boss pays you to spend time with him and not for the work you do or don't do, and the morbidly out of control control freak boyfriend.

 

Just by putting a tilde (~) and an asterisk (*) before and after your name does not make your old fantasies go away.

And I'll just add that your supposed saga sounds more like an infomercial for "gay.com" - each of your posts has a gazillion references to it... also, the FIRST time way back when, when you were "tipped off" that he was gay from gay.com, why would you out of the blue go to that site and enter his address??? and he used the same one he had given you, that he'd know others could easily use to find out if he was a member there? and after confronting him about it, he later uses the SAME address on the same site again? then when you're all down about it, you accidentally dial 911 and the cop who comes over happens to be the same guy you met on a dating site 4 years ago and asks you out? funny.

[Juliet2]

, why would you out of the blue go to that site and enter his address??? and he used the same one he had given you, that he'd know others could easily use to find out if he was a member there?

 

He said why would he use the same address!!! ?

[LexiB]

This is just too much drama to happen to one person in a span of what--a month???

 

Having a mighty hard time believing any of these stories to be true. But if they are, you don't need to be on LS hon, you should be on Oprah!

 

[933KJL]

OMG, this morning, I woke up and my dog apparently was horny and was humping my leg and then all of a sudden he penetrated me! And now I am pregnant with a dog baby! What do I do. I called the breeder of the dog and he offered me $2million to just let it go.

 

I am soooo confused, what should I do, have the little dog baby, or have an abortion? I need to know soon so please help me because my horoscope told me that Martians would be abducting me and trying to imprgnate my at noon today and I don't relish the thought of carrying twins! What should I do?

 

Boy life was so much simpler when people were offering me money for sex, screwig me and guys unprotected and raping me!

 

I just don't know why but strange things always seem to happen to me. Maybe I ought to go to gay.com and see if there are some answers there

[BadBadGirl]

OMG, this morning, I woke up and my dog apparently was horny and was humping my leg and then all of a sudden he penetrated me! And now I am pregnant with a dog baby! What do I do. I called the breeder of the dog and he offered me $2million to just let it go.

 

I am soooo confused, what should I do, have the little dog baby, or have an abortion? I need to know soon so please help me because my horoscope told me that Martians would be abducting me and trying to imprgnate my at noon today and I don't relish the thought of carrying twins! What should I do?

 

Boy life was so much simpler when people were offering me money for sex, screwig me and guys unprotected and raping me!

 

I just don't know why but strange things always seem to happen to me.

 

gee, 933kjl. i don't even know what to say about all that. but i can't wait for your next post, because i want to know all about how you are the true elvis...and marilyn monroe. but in that case, i would go to fried-snickers.com, rather than gay.com.

[onlyhuman]

Juliet,

You have 5 good reasons to stay,nothing else should matter.

Your life is pretty boring compared to mine.

I woke up three weeks ago in Saigon without my kidney.The last thing I remember was being at a Monster Truck rally drinking beer.One of the trucks rolled over and up into the bleachers onto my leg.I thought I was lucky because the girl behind me was a nurse, she gave me some pain killers and then I'm in this hotel.I couldn't even speak Saigonese, I got out of the room only to find it was going to be a worse day, I had no money and all I was wearing was diapers.The only reason I got to an airport is some Hari Krishnas picked me up, they thought I was from the American Chapter.

It took three days for me to get a passport and get back to the USA.

I got home and unbelievably in my absence my house which I own was rented out to some displaced Carni's.I'm still trying to get them out !The elephant they have has ruined my backyard.

While all this has happened I lost my job with NASA, they don't believe anything I said.

I'm fortunate that the room I'm renting from my grandmother has internet and I can help you with your problem.Your guy is not lying and he sounds like a good person!

[littlekitty]

OMG, this morning, I woke up and my dog apparently was horny and was humping my leg and then all of a sudden he penetrated me! And now I am pregnant with a dog baby! What do I do. I called the breeder of the dog and he offered me $2million to just let it go.

 

I am soooo confused, what should I do, have the little dog baby, or have an abortion? I need to know soon so please help me because my horoscope told me that Martians would be abducting me and trying to imprgnate my at noon today and I don't relish the thought of carrying twins! What should I do?

 

Boy life was so much simpler when people were offering me money for sex, screwig me and guys unprotected and raping me!

 

I just don't know why but strange things always seem to happen to me. Maybe I ought to go to gay.com and see if there are some answers there

 

:lmao:

 

Don't worry..... I'm sure Juliet's been in this position and can offer some advice regarding your dog baby pregnancy. After all, everything's happened to her!

[Juliet2]

BUT, please just try to stick to my problem. Please just pretend it is true when you give me advice.

 

I think my bf might be telling me the truth... He could not have talked to that guy while he was on the road unless his phone is hooked up to the net. He offered to show me his phone bill when it comes as proof.

 

Maybe that Gay guy was full of it. They seem to sleep around so much maybe they can't remember who they talk to!

 

Why would he use the same email address as the hot girl said?

 

We are broke up but I am still thinking it over. I wish you could beleive me enough to be serious about what i should do. Is there a way to find out if he is lying?

[933KJL]

Take it as an omen. Call up Mr. Woodward and take him up on this $2MM. You will have the money, no need to worry about a gay boyfriend (after all a Woodward could not be gay), give up the alimony--I mean you are now a Woodward.

[Juliet2]

The 2million guy i am sure was lying through his teeth i am sure... so how is in unbelievable that someone would play an online game like that.

 

The rest yeah... i would not believe it either i guess. IT IS TRUE though!

 

Be serious, if you beleived all my stories were true (which they are) Would you not have issues?..would you not be confused?... would you not need advice?.. and then to top it off no one believes you..its so frustrating!

 

I did not tell my friends what happened with my BF recently ... They would no be impressed if i took him back..infact they would think i was retarded... I can't talk to them about this AT ALL. They already think i am the most naive person going. I have no support on this one at all.

 

You have no idea how tortured I feel. How much i've cried... and how low i feel right now. Go ahead kick me when i am down..point fingers at me...make your jokes. It can't get any worse for me right now anyway:( :(

[Juliet2]

Again, what if he is telling the truth?.. many people do not believe me when i am telling the truth..my bf pointed that out...So maybe just maybe he did not try to cheat on me. I need to know for sure...or I will always wonder... I am so confused.

 

I do love him.. it is killing me not knowing and doubting. I feel like I could very well be the fool. I had a dream the night before last i put my shoes on the wrong feet and everyone was pointing and laughing about how stupid I was.. That makes me feel if i take him back that's how i will be seen so i can't tell my friends.

 

If I give him a chance..and i fall on my face i can honestly say..that bad decision will kill me.. without any doubt that would be it.. i would be forever broken and would just totally give up on believing in anyone ever again. I can also say mentally i can't handle something like this again either. I have other vices i have not spoke of that would consume me alive if i fall again. He is aware and "swears" as he gentley wipes away my tears..."he is not that big of an a**h*** to hurt me that way." He held me in his arms for a while last night. He said that part of him is in the past. I am the only one he desires..and for the first time in his life he is actually faithful, honest and true that is the one time he actually loses the one he loves! He said he knew what i went through before with my ex...(trying to cheat with men) and he would never put me through that. He promises, swears and even tears stream down his face while he maintains these statements.

[TUDOR]

Think of your boyfriend's gay past as a diet he is on. People cheat on their diets all the time because it so easy to do. He may very much want to stop that lifestyle but chances are when there is an easy access for him to indulge in is forbidden fruit then I think he will.

 

Being with you may be very gratifying for him and what he wants. But he also has a clear taste for being with men. How can you possibly do the same things a man can for him being less equipt. I think you are setting yourself up to be hurt if you think he will walk away from the lifestyle for good. The reality is he will just get better and wiser about covering his tracks while convincing you it doesn't exist. My 2 cents.

[whichwayisup]

1, I love him.

2, He loves me

3, Part of me will always wonder... was he telling the truth?

4, our love life is amazing

5, He behaves like he is so into me..calling 5-6 times a day. Helping me whenever I need help. He talks about "us" long term...He adores me.

 

OK, I understand 1 and 2.

 

3 makes NO sense. That isn't a reason to stay with someone. You can't love someone fully if you don't trust them!!!!!!! Hense, wtf is going on right now in your life.

 

4. HOW is your love amazing? DO you mean through sex, or honesty, trust and openness? I am confused by you and what you say in your other posts. Makes no sense and doesn't add up.

 

5. People who are "into" eachother don't call 5-6 times a day. That is abit much. Or maybe it isn't when you're younger.

He is there for you when you need support. Yet he is seeking out other men to screw too?

He talks about long term, yet his actions have shown otherwise.

 

Your call here, but I think you need help, so does your boyfriend. An unhealthy relationship isn't good and I think that is what this one is.

[whichwayisup]

I do love him.. it is killing me not knowing and doubting. I feel like I could very well be the fool. I had a dream the night before last i put my shoes on the wrong feet and everyone was pointing and laughing about how stupid I was.. That makes me feel if i take him back that's how i will be seen so i can't tell my friends.

 

WHO cares what your friends think. This is about you and him. Right?

 

Back off, see what happens. When enough time passes, make him be clear and honest with you otherwise you'll break up with him. If you don't do this you'll always wonder and not knowing is worse than knowing. Atleast with knowing you know how to handle things and what you're up against.

[lilmoma1973]

So you are dating someone that is still gay... Why would you date someone that you know is this way ? You knew he was gay and you knew he has been with men!! Maybe he is dating you as a coverup to hide the fact that he is still gay and he is doing it for his friends and family !! You don't need to be risking your life with his lifestyle not worth it... Good luck hope it work out

[NiCoLe20]

knock some sense into your head girl!! WHY would u want to stay with this guy?

 

First off, he doesnt love you, then why would he lie AND have unprotected sex with other guys?!! do you really want a ''boyfriend'' when he's gay?!!!! eew... he's confused with what he wants, AND he put you at risk for having AIDS.. thats NOT love sweety.

 

this isnt a relationship... IMO- its just sex he wants. leave him alone, take a test, and find a MAN... iw ould never ever ever be with a guy that has sex with other guys, yuck!