peacemonger Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 My ex dumped me in March which made me begged him to take me back. In June, he texted asking me to stay away from him. That text made me accepted the break up and we have been in no contact since then. I’m in the process of healing and have been moving on since then. He texted me few days ago saying hi on my birthday which I ignored. He then texted again asking about our past relationship which I answered the next day and with few words. He then asked whether I’m alright and again trying to bring up our past. I told him that I’m feeling a bit unwell (hangover) and I will text him later. He wished me well and to take care (with smiling emoji). I’m confused with his intentions. Why did he text hi after asking me to stay away. Why did he just say hi and did not wish birthday. Apart of me, would rather ignore all his texts and blocked him but we promised to always be kind to each other. Link to post Share on other sites
LivingWaterPlease Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 I don't know why he did the things he did, the way he did them. However, since you'd rather ignore his texts since you're trying to move on why not ask him to stay away from you, as he once asked you to do? Good for you that you stayed in no contact. Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 He's between relationships and suddenly remembered you. He would like to briefly get back together. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 8 hours ago, peacemonger said: Apart of me, would rather ignore all his texts and blocked him but we promised to always be kind to each other. Sorry to hear that. Do you think sending nonsense is "promised to always be kind to each other"? Exes don't make promises. If you are having trouble moving forward, it's time to delete and block him from all social media and messaging apps. It's not "unkind" to do so, it's respecting yourself and allowing yourself the space and uninterrupted peace to heal. If he's just fishing for hookups, do you want that? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 Those are bread crumbs. I would not have even read what he had written. You don't have to answer me but you better know the answer to these Qs before you do anything else? Do you know why you broke up? what the problem was? Has that problem or issue been fully resolved? Do you want to get back together? Does he? Why? Unless the 1st 4 answers are a resounding yes, & you have a concrete answer to why, don't even bother because if it wasn't working then, it won't work now. Link to post Share on other sites
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