stillafool Posted October 5, 2020 Share Posted October 5, 2020 Yes you have to detach from his family and friends for your own good. You want to keep him off of your mind and contact with them will keep you stuck on him. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 On 9/25/2020 at 6:12 PM, migi said: Btw now he got angry with me and he blocked me. I am feeling so bad and so lonely. How is it possible that if you tell people how you feel about something, they get angry? Am I supposed to feel the way he want? What am I doing wrong because I am hating myself for falling in love with him, because he is an abuser. Always when I get jelaous or tell him about something that is bothering me, phe reacts this way He is either breaking up with you or making sure you know your place in a relationship with him. You should of broken up with him already. It is one thing to have a conversation about a partner possibly cheating on you. It is something more offensive to be told you feel looser then you did. You should of told him that you bought the smallest toy you could find after that comment. I honestly think you can do better. My wife and I were long distance while I was in the service. I never once gave her reasons to think I didn’t put her first. Same with her towards me. All our problems happened after we started having kids sad to say. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 On 9/27/2020 at 10:55 AM, migi said: He kenw I was sick and I don't understand how he doesn't even ask how I am today. It wouldn't matter for me if me and my boyfriend had a fight, I still would care about his health. I feel so unworthy and unimportant His actions show how unworthy he is to be your boyfriend. My world stops when my wife was sick or hurt. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 You need to file a police report to show that he has threatened you. You need to talk with a domestic abuse counselor, you need help. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 On 9/27/2020 at 6:07 PM, migi said: Actually when I read your threads I want to end it. And even if it was a friend in my place, I would tell her to break up with this kind of boyfriend. But then I think I might regret it or miss him, even though I know that there is not much to regret or miss from him There is nothing anyone can do for you if you voluntarily cling to him. "Liking" other girls butts is not something you call the police for. You won't block him, you won't end it, you won't delete him. You won't research abuse, you won't talk to your parents. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts