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After NC should I see ex?


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Hi guys here's my story..

 

I'm 19 and I was with my bf who's 21 on/off for around 8 months. I broke up with him 2 months ago as I was unhappy in the relationship. I have been doing NC now for around 6 weeks. I started NC to try & get over him but it's only made me realise how much I love him. He has texted me throughout this period (even though I asked him not to) asking how I am or If we could meet up. It was sooo hard doing NC, but I stuck at it & didn't respond. I was really upset up until around a month ago & the whole time I've had hope that we could get back together. I finally feel ready to see him again as I don't think I can hold out any longer & I miss him sooo much. He's asked to see my this week, do you think I should accept & see what happens? Has anyone got any stories about what happened the first time they met up with an ex after NC & a break up? Also do you think there's a chance that it would work if we got back together after such a long time?

 

Any advice would be great, thanks alot.

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whereismylifegoing

if you broke up with him, why are you doing NC? That is usually for the people who get dumped. in your situation you would just need to flat out tell him what his problems are and make a decision if you would want him back or not.

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You dumped him but youre refusing to contact him? That seems a bit stubborn, dont you think? For g0ds sake girl, if you love him, GET HIM BACK!! Dont let your pride rule your decisions :o

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