Topfet Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 I'm 33 year old and I have had no success with dating ever I've pretty much tried everything and nothing has worked. I've gotten bitter over it and I know someone is going to say that my mindset is the problem but I was always rejected before I got bitter so I don't see the point. I'm tired of jumping through hoops for nothing and taking a break won't help me because women have never approached me or showed any interest in me. I'm angry about it all and rightfully so cause I've tried everything. Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 (edited) 9 minutes ago, Topfet said: because women have never approached me... Males usually do the "chasing" or "approaching". Do you know how to approach a woman (in a public setting)? Do you have the ability to "chit-chat"? Can you be interesting and engaging? Edited October 10, 2020 by Happy Lemming Link to post Share on other sites
Author Topfet Posted October 10, 2020 Author Share Posted October 10, 2020 1 hour ago, Happy Lemming said: Males usually do the "chasing" or "approaching". Do you know how to approach a woman (in a public setting)? Do you have the ability to "chit-chat"? Can you be interesting and engaging? Well chasing or approaching hasn't worked for me a d what's the point of women aren't interested in the first place? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 Ok, what's is the hold up then? Do you have a good profile and pics on quality (paid) dating apps? Do you have your own place, car, job? Do you belong to groups, clubs, volunteer? Where have you tried these approaches? Bars and just walking up to random women is garbage. Find ways to have some regular small talk first. If none of the above apply or haven't been tried, then you just want to be angry. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Topfet Posted October 10, 2020 Author Share Posted October 10, 2020 Dating sites suck women are only on there for attention and only respond to the most attractive men. 2 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: Ok, what's is the hold up then? Do you have a good profile and pics on quality (paid) dating apps? Do you have your own place, car, job? Do you belong to groups, clubs, volunteer? Where have you tried these approaches? Bars and just walking up to random women is garbage. Find ways to have some regular small talk first. If none of the above apply or haven't been tried, then you just want to be angry. I've been on dating sites they suck women are only on there for attention and only respond to the most attractive men. I have my own place and a car which doesn't mean anything because women don't even give me a chance. I'm tired of doing thing I don't enjoy just to meet women. Link to post Share on other sites
FirstClass Posted October 17, 2020 Share Posted October 17, 2020 Forgive me Tofet, But then why are you here, just to spout off? What are the things that you do like to do? Are there clubs you can join to do those things? You aren't giving us much to work with...... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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