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Datingdisabled

I've lost track of the days since I left work on Tuesday and never went back. It's been another few days in bed and what knocked me down this time, was over the weekend when they got into my women's on trades Facebook page. He had women talk about us being married and I have all these certificates. She was better looking, had all these friends around her and then right above it, was a post about how he hasn't spoke to me in five years and what it would mean to win. 

In eight years, he never cared about this at all. It was all to get me to stop contacting him and emailing him. Everyone took his side and as long as indifference was achieved, they did not care at what cost. This was never about me and always about him. The emails bothered him and he didn't want to speak directly to me. It was easier for him if I just figured it out on my own. It was all for him! 

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9 hours ago, Datingdisabled said:

I've lost track of the days since I left work on Tuesday and never went back. It's been another few days in bed and what knocked me down this time, was over the weekend when they got into my women's on trades Facebook page. He had women talk about us being married and I have all these certificates. She was better looking, had all these friends around her and then right above it, was a post about how he hasn't spoke to me in five years and what it would mean to win. 

Did he use your name in this post? 

And what do you mean by win - win what, exactly?

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55 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said:

Did he use your name in this post? 

And what do you mean by win - win what, exactly?

My peace of mind and blocking me. If he blocks me then I do work because no one else is going to gaslight me or play a stupid game that lasted 8 years. 8 years if advice i did and will not take. If anyone were in my shoes then they wouldn't feel too great but they jump on the opportunity to play this sick game. We would be fine and just carry on with life when this ends. 

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