Queenz07 Posted November 4, 2020 Share Posted November 4, 2020 SOOOOO back in June, I posted this So I have been friends with this guy for about a year. Our friendship really began to pick up around July of 2019. From that point on we FaceTimed all the time, texted etc. Around December, I went to go visit him at his apartment for the first time when I was in town visiting (he lives 3.5 hours away). He made me breakfast and we made mimosas. I spilled some of the mimosa on my jacket (around my boob) and he kept touching the spot ultimately touching my boob. Later on in this hangout session he playfully unzipped me jacket (he knew I only had a bra on underneath because he made a comment about it). This is the only semi but not really sexual advance he’s made towards me. Fast forward to March of 2020, we discussed hanging out multiple times and he suggested that I come visit him and stay the weekend with him. When I came down the most touchy feeling things got is when he would lay on me while he was playing the game or he would sometimes lay on my butt. He let me have the bed and he slept on the couch. One night I fell asleep without a cover and he came in the room and gave me a blanket and plugged my phone up to the charger. The next morning he made me breakfast (he always does considerate sweet things like that). BUT despite all of that he would sometimes leave me at his apartment at night to go sleep and hangout with other girls. In May of 2020 I went to visit again and he asked me to stay the weekend once more. Same as before, he let me have his bed, never tried anything. We watched a walk to remember and that time he did get in the bed with me but we were faced each other (no cuddling involved). That weekend I met his sister and best friend and he invited me to his sisters birthday party this weekend. I honestly don’t know where we stand, I’d like to think we are just friends but he gives me SOOOOO many mixed signals. SN: he always post me on his social media and I’m the only girl on his instagram and he’s posted me on there twice and Snapchat an endless amount of times. Maybe we are just friends and I’m reading into things too much. But I need another opinion. UPDATE as of 11/4/2020 He came and stayed with me two weeks ago and the first night was like normal. The next morning somehow (I still cant tell you how this happened), things got a little heated and we ended up fooling around for the first time in our ENTIRE friendship. He made a comment about how hes been waiting to do this for awhile. Afterwards, we had a conversation in which we discussed that we wouldnt let this effect our friendship and I cant lie, it has been so much better since we messed around. It feels like we are extremely open and comfortable with each other, not that we werent before but it feels different now. He would ask questions about my relationships with other men and I would ask about his current situation with a girl hes dealing with (i know its weird). We've gone from talking twice a week to everyday sun up and sun down. He'll make comments about missing me all the time and im not sure if its for sexual reasons or what. Any thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted November 4, 2020 Share Posted November 4, 2020 He sees you as a friend/buddy/sister. He would kiss you if he had a romantic interest and would not leave you to go out with other women. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted November 4, 2020 Share Posted November 4, 2020 45 minutes ago, Queenz07 said: he would sometimes leave me at his apartment at night to go sleep and hangout with other girls. I would ask about his current situation with a girl hes dealing with (i know its weird). We've gone from talking twice a week to everyday sun up and sun down. It's unclear what you are hoping from from this? Hookups? Friendship? FWB? Dating/a BF? Link to post Share on other sites
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