spyderchaz Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 SO this is really confusing girlfriend moved out on sept 29th and than just at the begining of this week her dad came by to pick up the cable box and modem because they were in her name. And proceeded to tell me that it's over that she was never happier when she left here and that she didnt want anything more to do with me.....so i was doing NC and I had to call her and ask her why her father said that because pretty much she wanted to be alone because she didnt know who she was outside of being my girlfriend, i am 23 and she is 21. SO she wanted to be independent and anyways I called her and told her what her dad said and told her that it hurt and wondered what she wanted to do because I heard 3 different things from her when she left. first was I want to stay together and make it work I was like okay, than I want to be friends until im ready to be in a relationship again because I dont think it's fair to you. and finally mysteriously broke it off after her dad came by my thing is her parents and I never got along because I am a artist and I think they gave her a altamateum and said you can move back with us but you have to drop all contact with me....And I asked her on the phone when she broke up about all the problems other than her family that she had and told me we would talk about it at a later date..Also I asked for my apt key back and she still hasnt given it back....I just wish she wouldnt let her family run her life. I dont really know what to do and than last thing when I talked to her when she broke it off she said she thinks she's pregnant and was getting tested on weds I havent heard anything from her so I am thinking that she isnt. it just hurts that her family is more important than her relationship. I need advice on what to do, it hurts so bad because I dont think this was ultimately her decision. Link to post Share on other sites
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