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Just now, Kely1 said:

. I just want to know, so I can continue my life and he his. 

You can continue your life however you see fit. It's not dependent on him.

If you don't like the anxiety of LDRs, it's completely up to you to end it.

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3 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

You can continue your life however you see fit. It's not dependent on him.

If you don't like the anxiety of LDRs, it's completely up to you to end it.

I have never felt anxiety of LDR in these years and never felt jealousy. It has been only this week, because his actions are making me anxious. Even if it wasn't a LDR, I would still feel the same if he acted this way. 

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On 11/22/2020 at 2:43 PM, Kely1 said:

Hey guys! 
I need you help because he is making me crazy. It is starting to feel like my first realtionship that the guys was ignoring me the whole time. I can't stand it this way, I am ready to break up but I love him and I don't want to do something I might regret 

Tell him that. He needs to set your mind at ease, too. 

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On 11/23/2020 at 2:58 AM, Kely1 said:

I have been trying to call him last 3-4 days, but he told me that he was with his friends. He sent me pictures so I could believe him. I don't know how he can't find just one minute to talk to me. 

Unless he's on vacay, when a man sends you pics "proving" where he is (with his friends), he's actually not where he claims to be.

Never fall for that BS, it's a ruse, a way to throw you off his real game. 

A man who's telling the truth does not need to send you pics "proving" where he is.  What a load of ****.  His word should be good enough, unless he's lying.  

I'm sorry to say this but he's done. May have met another woman, a local woman. And that's where he's been.

Just a guess, but nevertheless I'd end it.

Your call.  I'm sorry. :classic_sad:

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2 hours ago, poppyfields said:

Unless he's on vacay, when a man sends you pics "proving" where he is (with his friends), he's actually not where he claims to be.

Never fall for that BS, it's a ruse, a way to throw you off his real game. 

A man who's telling the truth does not need to send you pics "proving" where he is.  What a load of ****.  His word should be good enough, unless he's lying.  

Lol well said. And let's face it - he should also just call OP to set her mind at ease.

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Your "BF" is ignoring your calls and messages. Regardless of what he SAYS, his ACTIONS indicate he has checked out of the R. You need to just end it and move on.

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Most of the posters on these threads are here asking questions like this and there's one, one size fits all answer............. he's not the guy for you. People are all trying to hang onto people who don't really want them.

I'm sorry this sounds blunt/hurtful. But when you're with someone who wants to be with you there's none of these issues going on. You feel loved. Wanted. And above all SAFE. You already know it's time to move on if he's not treating you in a manner that isn't causing anxiety and doubt and insecurity.

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