Maldives Posted November 22, 2020 Share Posted November 22, 2020 Hi all Need people's perspective as I'm pretty sure there is some form of agenda behind this person's intentions. She's in Florida (U.S) I'm in Australia she is trans female btw wether that has any relevance. Matched on an online app for trans specifically. She had her location set as Australia however thru conversation i learn thru her telling me she is in Florida lol and she put that down as she wants to return here. I said I'm not interested as it's too far however something about her next sentence kind of made me curious she mentions how easily I gave up. I left it for a few days as she asked if I had WhatsApp i kinda suspect that thats a way for scammers to kind of get you away from the app as the app filters that kind of stuff better than WhatsApp would. Anyway after a day or two I give her my WhatsApp and we chat here and there thinking what's the harm if I just give her that nothing else. We do a video call so I see it's really her the same person as on her profile. I ask her her why she's looking for someone so far away it just doesn't add up for me. Her reasoning, American men are rude which I kinda don't really buy. After a 2 weeks of chatting she wants to know what we are lol and says love you again red flag for me..which I reply getting to know each other. She mentions here and there about how easy it is for her to come here once Covid is over. I notice her dating account gets suspended which I bring up and she is not too bothered by but then it's reinstated by the app again a few days later weird lol. I guess I've kinda just gone along with it just out of sheer curiousity to see what she wants or if it's agenda driven in some way. She hasn't asked for money and claims she has her own lamp business in Florida. Her parents are from Singapore and Japan so I haven't thought yet to ask her visa status. It's low key chats don't go all night and she just diaapears over the weekend and I'm not really head over heals or anything about her but just wanting to see what this is all about . We've been causally chatting for three weeks and I haven't given much away about me re personal stuff as I still feel it's possibly a scam but it's kind of a little grey wth the video chat..I've also done a reverse image on Google search and haven't come up with anything or anything suspicious. anyway what do u make of to this? Her no. Is a U.S no. Re country code. I just don't get the effort lol from her. I have noticed a lot of U.S profiles to that reach out to me that's why I'm suspicious Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted November 22, 2020 Share Posted November 22, 2020 Don't go down this rabbit hole or give out personal info. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted November 22, 2020 Share Posted November 22, 2020 Any time a total stranger says they love you, you need to end communication. That isn't normal for an adult, OP, and you know this. There is either something not very stable about this person, or she is warming you up to try to get something out of you. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
lana-banana Posted November 22, 2020 Share Posted November 22, 2020 This could be a scam, or it could be someone emotionally disturbed who only feels safe with a "barrier" between her and other people. (That comes up on the LDR boards more than you might expect.) But the important part is she is not available for a real relationship and she has already raised red flags here. Let this one go. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Narie Posted December 20, 2020 Share Posted December 20, 2020 Careful. She may not even be from USA... Link to post Share on other sites
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