Why do I always seem to find that my mother always rejected each guys that I seem to like part from younger guys they don't get reject ?

[Candacesims]

this has been an issue for myself because my mother thinks she has special training from being a nurse. it makes very hard to find a guy without learning disabilities. she just wants myself to get with a guy with learning disabilities. I would prefer a guy on autism i know they will be a better match for myself since we will have common traits. I tried talking to her, but she will refuse. I ask why can my older sister and younger can date who they want but I can't. she said nothing. I said I have been cheated on with guys with learning disabilities. she said that some guys they did have learning disabilities. I even ask about asexual and she still said No. I do not know what do. if I was born a guy this wouldn't happen at all. I ask my dad too, and he said I don't know. My granny is only person that help me more often and sometimes Granddad. My granny grew up around learning disabilities too.

[Wiseman2]

Who do you live with? your parents and siblings or also extended family like grandparents?

Do you go to school/work?

Are you allowed to date at all or only certain boys?

Are you scheduled for an arranged marriage? Do your parents have someone in mind for you?

[ShyViolet]

Why are you letting your mother control your dating life?  If you are an adult over 18 then you don't need her approval; do what you want.

[Candacesims]

why do people don't understand that I have learning disabilities and only allow to date men with a learning disables . she won't let myself has my own way . she only relax when I shower on my own can make some food on my own . the dating issue always get worsted. tried asking why . taking advantage of vulnerability or worse the Rape . my mum is very strict with dating  and relationship .  not getting arranged marriage . 

[Candacesims]

it not a real job that I  dislike . get paid by the town council .  it's volunteering job . i have two volunteering type of jobs that is charity and one is a catty.

[stillafool]

Why not get a job that pays you money so you can move away from your mother?