Author kiwistwbry Posted December 7, 2020 Author Share Posted December 7, 2020 4 minutes ago, poppyfields said: Again, rhetorical no need to answer to us dear. I agree. No need to repeat myself, DEAR. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted December 7, 2020 Share Posted December 7, 2020 (edited) 11 minutes ago, kiwistwbry said: I agree. No need to repeat myself, DEAR. Actually no you haven't answered those questions because they had not been asked prior to my post asking. You know kiwi, believe it or not, we are all here trying to help you. Many of us have experienced the same or similar situations ourselves. As such, your responses are disrespectful and uncalled for. It's one thing to not agree but the sarcasm and frankly negativity currently coming from you is beyond the pale, imo. None of us no matter how much you disagree, deserves that. My last piece of advice? Get help. Edited December 7, 2020 by poppyfields 4 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kiwistwbry Posted December 7, 2020 Author Share Posted December 7, 2020 1 minute ago, Shortskirtslonglashes said: Must be convenient to be able to change the meaning of ‘sound’ by adding words like “positive” and “supportive” to its definition. All the best, nevertheless I did nothing of the sort. But there ya go with that mind reading again. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kiwistwbry Posted December 7, 2020 Author Share Posted December 7, 2020 2 minutes ago, poppyfields said: My last piece of advice? Get help. Likewise. Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted December 7, 2020 Share Posted December 7, 2020 (edited) 4 minutes ago, kiwistwbry said: Likewise. Lol, I am currently in therapy, for different reasons that would obviously benefit you, and it's helping me tremendously. I sincerely hope you will do same. xo Edited December 7, 2020 by poppyfields Link to post Share on other sites
Author kiwistwbry Posted December 7, 2020 Author Share Posted December 7, 2020 (edited) 3 minutes ago, poppyfields said: Lol, I am currently in therapy, for different reasons I’m glad. Edited December 7, 2020 by kiwistwbry Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted December 7, 2020 Share Posted December 7, 2020 (edited) 42 minutes ago, kiwistwbry said: Not all 😉 Then you quoted a post where are you thanked only the people who offered you advice that was positive and supportive. 42 minutes ago, kiwistwbry said: It’s not mind reading, actually. It’s deductive/inductive reasoning in communication to infer something about a social situation...an ability you seem to somewhat struggle with or this guy’s lack of interest would be quite apparent to you. I am using the same method to conclude that you are quite hostile and not open to disagreement, so it’s not all that useful to offer you an opposing opinion and I should cease communication. See how that works? Edited December 7, 2020 by Shortskirtslonglashes 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Acacia98 Posted December 7, 2020 Share Posted December 7, 2020 (edited) On 12/5/2020 at 1:42 AM, blocker said: . 1 hour ago, kiwistwbry said: So called mind reading and future prediction capabilities based on what has been claimed to be facts from this entire situation just to prove a point. To each his own. They were right, though. No one died. No one was anguished. And he ultimately wasn't interested. So in the mind-reading and prediction leagues, they're not doing too badly. OP, this guy isn't good relationship material, based solely on what he told you about himself. And he doesn't sound like good friendship material either. Look, the man bared his soul to you the very first time he met you, and he hugged you real close for an extended period. That was not remotely normal behavior, by the way. Now, days later, when you write to him, he sounds like a completely different person: reserved, wary, uninterested... IME, when someone goes from one extreme to another in this way, it's likely he's a twisted manipulator, or there's a mental health issue, or he was intoxicated/high on something, or some or all of the above. The most important thing is this: You did what you felt was right. You got your answers. Now your conscience can rest. Focus on the other guys. See where things go with them. Edited December 7, 2020 by Acacia98 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Acacia98 Posted December 7, 2020 Share Posted December 7, 2020 Please ignore the first quote in my post above. It doesn't belong in this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
ThereSheGoes Posted December 7, 2020 Share Posted December 7, 2020 Yeah, girl. He was basically saying that in text: Leave me alone. Don't try and pursue a friendship, just delete his number. No need to keep him around if he doesn't serve a purpose. He's not interested in anything you have to offer. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kiwistwbry Posted December 7, 2020 Author Share Posted December 7, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, Acacia98 said: They were right, though. No one died. No one was anguished. And he ultimately wasn't interested. So in the mind-reading and prediction leagues, they're not doing too badly. OP, this guy isn't good relationship material, based solely on what he told you about himself. And he doesn't sound like good friendship material either. Look, the man bared his soul to you the very first time he met you, and he hugged you real close for an extended period. That was not remotely normal behavior, by the way. Now, days later, when you write to him, he sounds like a completely different person: reserved, wary, uninterested... IME, when someone goes from one extreme to another in this way, it's likely he's a twisted manipulator, or there's a mental health issue, or he was intoxicated/high on something, or some or all of the above. The most important thing is this: You did what you felt was right. You got your answers. Now your conscience can rest. Focus on the other guys. See where things go with them. You are right, no one died. So grateful for that. And the most important thing is I have been and will continue to stay true to myself this entire time. While focusing on other potential partners. I appreciate it Edited December 7, 2020 by kiwistwbry 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kiwistwbry Posted December 7, 2020 Author Share Posted December 7, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, Shortskirtslonglashes said: I am using the same method I guess we all have our methods when it comes to giving advice. If you re-read this thread you will see that I have been open to views opposite of my own. Just not any character assassination either towards myself (needy, desperate, lacking self respect, etc...) or the guy (manipulator, drug addict, shady, etc...) Not to mention mind reading and future predicting. But to each his own. Edited December 7, 2020 by kiwistwbry 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Pumaza Posted December 8, 2020 Share Posted December 8, 2020 Be glad he ddnt text you no more. Block and move on.If you are not about that life dont date ex users. If he still around those freinds is a warning sign for sure. It looks like a mess.Move on.Before you find yourself in bunch of other stuff you ddnt signup for. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kiwistwbry Posted December 8, 2020 Author Share Posted December 8, 2020 (edited) 13 minutes ago, Pumaza said: Be glad he ddnt text you no more. Block and move on.If you are not about that life dont date ex users. If he still around those freinds is a warning sign for sure. It looks like a mess.Move on.Before you find yourself in bunch of other stuff you ddnt signup for. ⬆️ I can appreciate this. Point definitely taken. You could very well be right. Thank you. Edited December 8, 2020 by kiwistwbry Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted December 8, 2020 Share Posted December 8, 2020 Not all friends end up as dates and not all dates end up as friends. -Fortune Cookie ☺️ 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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