Me and My Cousin Kissed on Lips and We Liked it Should I Continue That?

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I and My Cousin have very friendly behaviour with each other, our age is same 26, and we also decided that our relationship is not bro sis, we are friends, one day we were chatting and we ended up kissing on chat, so that day I told her that no it's wrong we can't chat like this then she told me that she didn't see me as a brother, she sees me as her friend.so from that day our life is changed, then after some time we met one time and kiss each other on lips a lot and we both like to kiss each other, and we also decided that we will never go more than kiss and our relation is only good friends, I also don't have any sexual desire with her just like to kiss her.

and yes we rarely meet like 2 3 years one time

so i am confused is it okay to continue doing that ?

[Wiseman2]

2 hours ago, rss said:

, I also don't have any sexual desire with her just like to kiss her

Perhaps you should stop. Why not start dating women you're not related to?

This is too complicated.

 

[rss]

1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

Perhaps you should stop. Why not start dating women you're not related to?

This is too complicated.

 I also don't have any sexual desire with her means that i don't wanna have full sex with her , but sometimes i feel that i want kiss her and. do love making and all

 

4 hours ago, rss said:

I and My Cousin have very friendly behaviour with each other, our age is same 26, and we also decided that our relationship is not bro sis, we are friends, one day we were chatting and we ended up kissing on chat, so that day I told her that no it's wrong we can't chat like this then she told me that she didn't see me as a brother, she sees me as her friend.so from that day our life is changed, then after some time we met one time and kiss each other on lips a lot and we both like to kiss each other, and we also decided that we will never go more than kiss and our relation is only good friends, I also don't have any sexual desire with her just like to kiss her.

and yes we rarely meet like 2 3 years one time

so i am confused is it okay to continue doing that ?

 

[Wiseman2]

Why are you asking? Is this ok with your family and your aunt/uncle, (her parents)?

What's up with this and why aren't you dating/kissing girls you are not related to?

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no our family's has no idea about it , we cant share with anyone else we have done very privately

we are actually attracted to each other thats why we done such things

[FMW]

No judgments from me, but -

If you feel you have to keep something a secret, that's your answer right there.  There are sometimes things that we enjoy and want, but we choose not to do, either because of our own or society's beliefs and judgments.  

It's obviously up to you and your cousin what you do or don't do with each other.  Do you want to keep doing something you feel you have to keep hidden?  Or maybe that's the appeal?  I find it unlikely that if you enjoy kissing each other you won't eventually move on to something more.  Most people don't kiss someone they would never be sexually attracted to.

  

[rss]

12 minutes ago, FMW said:

No judgments from me, but -

If you feel you have to keep something a secret, that's your answer right there.  There are sometimes things that we enjoy and want, but we choose not to do, either because of our own or society's beliefs and judgments.  

It's obviously up to you and your cousin what you do or don't do with each other.  Do you want to keep doing something you feel you have to keep hidden?  Or maybe that's the appeal?  I find it unlikely that if you enjoy kissing each other you won't eventually move on to something more.  Most people don't kiss someone they would never be sexually attracted to.

  

i understand what you said, yes we are attracted to each other , but i have decided that i will not have sex with her , i just want to do kiss and stuff , and we rarely meet in 2 3 years , but sometimes i feel am i doing wrong by kissing and sometimes i feel f*** it lets enjoy this  moments , so i am confused

[major_merrick]

I wouldn't worry too much about what society thinks.  If you fall in love, you fall in love.  But don't try to rush it or force it, and take plenty of time to keep things in perspective.

I was super close to my cousin.  We were never quite GFs but also not "just cousins" either.  It can have some awkward moments.  She died years ago, and I still miss her very much.  I have never sorted out exactly which one of society's boxes our relationship fit into.

[SolG]

I once had a boss who was married to his first cousin. One concession they made was to deliberately not have children. Everyone was pretty chill about it, including their family. Its certainly not without precedent; just check out any royal lineage!

Although sometimes with that boss I have to say it could be a little confusing chatting about his family. His Aunt/MIL, siblings in law/cousins... you get my drift.

 

[Fletch Lives]

I think somebody is making up a story.

[oldtruck]

it is legal for 1st cousins to marry in about 25 states

google search and you will find interesting facts

[alphamale]

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