Boyfriend of 4 months broke with me because of too many fights. What should I do?

[Glx]

18 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said:

Ask yourself where these deep insecurities come from. You need to understand the root of your emotional fragility and over-the-top reactions to fear and uncertainty.

Had you dated much prior to this? 

yes, my first serious relationship was very toxic and lasted 2 years, then there was a break up and we came back together (and everything was even worse). It wrote about it on forum earlier:

after that I had a couple of very short relationships, but nothing came out of that.

[ExpatInItaly]

5 minutes ago, Glx said:

yes, my first serious relationship was very toxic and lasted 2 years, then there was a break up and we came back together (and everything was even worse). It wrote about it on forum earlier:

after that I had a couple of very short relationships, but nothing came out of that.

So this is very much a patter for you. 

Your best bet is to stay single and not date for a while. Get the help you need in regulating your emotions and insecurity. When you are in a healthier mental state, successful relationships will follow. 

[BaileyB]

As has been said, I would suggest that you use this as a learning experience. You have some learning and growing to do before you are really ready for another relationship. 

[stillafool]

"Boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me because too many fights, what should I do?"

Accept it and move on.

[d0nnivain]

9 hours ago, Glx said:

I don't plan to continue or text him. Yes it is hard to accept that this is over... especially because he wrote me again. 

He keeps writing to you no matter that you treated him so poorly & are giving emotionless responses.  

8 hours ago, Glx said:

No, these messages were not hopeful at all. He just wanted to check up on me

I don't think this is over.  I think he will foolishly take you back. 

Since you said you are open to therapy, tell him you have started going & then ask to meet him so you two can talk about trying to repair the damage you did.  

[kendahke]

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Boyfriend of 4 months broke with me because of too many fights. What should I do?

Stop fighting would be the first thing that comes to mind.

[Wiseman2]

On 12/12/2020 at 11:50 AM, Glx said:

I am 25, he is 23. We know each other for 6 months. 

Unfortunately he has too much on his plate and is too immature for you. 6 mos is a good time to cut your losses and stop all the  strife and arguing.