LuckyM Posted December 13, 2020 Share Posted December 13, 2020 (edited) Have you ever bought a loves attention and conversation with cash or gift? No sex or intimacy only talk. Assuming she would not talk with you at all. She would refuse probably? Does money change thsir mind? $300. An odd question I know. If she or he is taken is it a big No? Edited December 13, 2020 by LuckyM Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted December 13, 2020 Share Posted December 13, 2020 (edited) No. There are online chat bots for that.If I’m paying, he better be putting out. Edited December 13, 2020 by Shortskirtslonglashes Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted December 13, 2020 Share Posted December 13, 2020 some of my work colleague found this amusing a few years ago, there was a lady I was pretty fond of- in fairness she was quite easy on the eye, but anyway I would regularly make almost a three hour drive just to meet her for coffee usually- it went on for nearly a year, these colleagues could not understand why I would go to the expense of driving and endure the tiredness of the driving for the sake of only having a cup of coffee, no regrets though, at least not about making the efforts to meet her, I enjoyed almost every minute of it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ZA Dater Posted December 14, 2020 Share Posted December 14, 2020 14 hours ago, Foxhall said: some of my work colleague found this amusing a few years ago, there was a lady I was pretty fond of- in fairness she was quite easy on the eye, but anyway I would regularly make almost a three hour drive just to meet her for coffee usually- it went on for nearly a year, these colleagues could not understand why I would go to the expense of driving and endure the tiredness of the driving for the sake of only having a cup of coffee, no regrets though, at least not about making the efforts to meet her, I enjoyed almost every minute of it. I can really understand this appeal, I have done similar a few times and ALWAYS found these experiences better than any date I have been on. So OP your idea is not ridiculous. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Trail Blazer Posted December 14, 2020 Share Posted December 14, 2020 Can you elaborate a bit further? To whom are you paying this sort of money, for how long are you gaining access to converse and what medium (i.e. phone, in person etc.) will be used in order to enable this conversation to be conducted? Link to post Share on other sites
Fletch Lives Posted December 14, 2020 Share Posted December 14, 2020 19 hours ago, Shortskirtslonglashes said: No. There are online chat bots for that.If I’m paying, he better be putting out. Haha! 😄 You can pay me to talk to ya! I'm cheap like dat! Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted December 14, 2020 Share Posted December 14, 2020 23 hours ago, LuckyM said: Have you ever bought a loves attention and conversation with cash or gift? A therapist will gladly take your money to "just talk". Call some chatlines maybe they'll just talk/listen ...it's your money. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted December 14, 2020 Share Posted December 14, 2020 I dated this one woman that volunteered at a Suicide Prevention Hot Line. She told me that the center had some weekly callers that were not suicidal, just lonely and wanted to chat with another human being. The staff was allowed to indulge them (provided there were no others in need.) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted December 16, 2020 Share Posted December 16, 2020 I don't think I'd have to. I get random messages online all the time from men who want to get acquainted. Given all the extra free time during the pandemic, I've been talking to the interesting ones. Tonight I might have a phone call with a police officer from Boston who retired early. We had a great chat last night about life, love, and our mutual fund investing 🤓 I think it'll be very interesting to get his take on the defund the police movement. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 16, 2020 Share Posted December 16, 2020 On 12/13/2020 at 4:04 PM, LuckyM said: Have you ever bought a loves attention and conversation with cash or gift? No sex or intimacy only talk. Assuming she would not talk with you at all. She would refuse probably? Does money change thsir mind? $300. An odd question I know. If she or he is taken is it a big No? No, but isn't this called phone sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LuckyM Posted December 17, 2020 Author Share Posted December 17, 2020 (edited) I don't mean phone sex and would never do that with a stranger. Yeah I am all alone. Love at first sight. A woman I fell for many years ago at my job I want to speak to again but I know she has no interest in me even platonically. We never went out and or did anything together We both left the job 7 years ago No contact with her. She knew I had feelings for her. She is very private. I guess paying her looks nuts to you. Desperate. No I won't be meeting anyone new. Stay At Home orders from the state. Talk must be on phone.or text. If she is married then forget it?? Edited December 17, 2020 by LuckyM clarity Link to post Share on other sites
Ellener Posted December 17, 2020 Share Posted December 17, 2020 5 minutes ago, LuckyM said: A woman I fell for many years ago at my job I want to speak to again but I know she has no interest in me even platonically. It doesn't sound like a very interesting call for $300. If she's a good person she won't take your money, well I wouldn't, or talk to you getting your hopes up again. Feel better soon. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
dangerous Posted December 31, 2020 Share Posted December 31, 2020 On 12/17/2020 at 3:03 PM, LuckyM said: I don't mean phone sex and would never do that with a stranger. Yeah I am all alone. Love at first sight. A woman I fell for many years ago at my job I want to speak to again but I know she has no interest in me even platonically. We never went out and or did anything together We both left the job 7 years ago No contact with her. She knew I had feelings for her. She is very private. I guess paying her looks nuts to you. Desperate. No I won't be meeting anyone new. Stay At Home orders from the state. Talk must be on phone.or text. If she is married then forget it?? Did she suggest the $300 to talk, or is this your idea? Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted December 31, 2020 Share Posted December 31, 2020 If you have an extra $300 laying around, I'm sure your local food bank could make good use out of it. My local food bank can prepare 2800 meals from a $400 donation (approximately 7 meals for every dollar donated). We are here, we'll talk to you for free!! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
QuietRiot Posted January 1, 2021 Share Posted January 1, 2021 On 12/14/2020 at 8:07 AM, ZA Dater said: I can really understand this appeal, I have done similar a few times and ALWAYS found these experiences better than any date I have been on. So OP your idea is not ridiculous. Are we talking about an IN-Person conversation or online? It's a waste of money online...why not just try to chat up some ladies that pop up in your "People you may know" list? Link to post Share on other sites
Author LuckyM Posted January 6, 2021 Author Share Posted January 6, 2021 I am stuck on her for some ireason. My idea to pay cash she would think is crazy and it is. Any amount. On the phone. She wouldn't meet me. I think she is married anyway. The conversation would be polite and nonromantic. NC in 8 years. Anyone understand me? Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted January 6, 2021 Share Posted January 6, 2021 9 minutes ago, LuckyM said: I am stuck on her for some ireason. You have to let it go and move on. Life isn't a fairy tale where we get everything we want. Maybe after the pandemic, make a big change in your life. Move to a new city (far away), hit the reset button on your life. Get a fresh start... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted January 6, 2021 Share Posted January 6, 2021 l suppose people do every day , if the forums any real indication. People suggest therapy when the dog farts , so they must all be forking out a fortune . Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 7, 2021 Share Posted January 7, 2021 14 hours ago, LuckyM said: . My idea to pay cash she would think is crazy and it is. Any amount. On the phone. Frankly, you can't really go around offering someone money for companionship without being insulting. It would be better to contact an escort service or phone or webcam service. As long as you pay, it doesn't matter to what you do . Your escort or whatever other service can just listen if that's your thing. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 7, 2021 Share Posted January 7, 2021 15 hours ago, LuckyM said: I am stuck on her for some ireason. My idea to pay cash she would think is crazy and it is. Any amount. On the phone. She wouldn't meet me. I think she is married anyway. The conversation would be polite and nonromantic. NC in 8 years. Anyone understand me? I can't say that I understand you but what I think you are saying is that you would like to talk to some woman you worked with 7 years ago. Your idea is to offer her $300 to talk to you. That's a horrid idea. She will think you think she's no better than a common hooker. It's insulting. Do you actually have contact info for her? If so, reach out & say hi. She will probably speak briefly to you for free even if she is married. A few minute trip down memory lane is fine. Trouble is you want more than that. You want to date her. You want this to be a romantic relationship but you refuse to admit that. If she is married you need to stay away. She & her husband don't need you orbiting her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LuckyM Posted January 16, 2021 Author Share Posted January 16, 2021 I admit that I have romantic interest but it is out of the question obviously. I even dream about her. She would be shocked to hear from me taken aback but thanks for the idea donovain. It is audacious of me and she would be shocked to hear from me and with no cash involved. She yelled at me once for copying her photo on her FB page at work. A good idea to move away somewhere after the covid scare subsides The heart has its reasons which the Reason knows not. Pascal 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted January 17, 2021 Share Posted January 17, 2021 (edited) Xxxxx Edited January 17, 2021 by Shortskirtslonglashes Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 17, 2021 Share Posted January 17, 2021 9 hours ago, LuckyM said: . She yelled at me once for copying her photo on her FB page at work. Oh boy. You need to be professional and watch your step at work. Even if you have a crush, don't stalk or do anything considered creepy. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted January 17, 2021 Share Posted January 17, 2021 On 1/7/2021 at 1:18 PM, d0nnivain said: Your idea is to offer her $300 to talk to you. That's a horrid idea. She will think you think she's no better than a common hooker. It's insulting. Agreed, it is a completely mad idea. 10 hours ago, LuckyM said: She yelled at me once for copying her photo on her FB page at work. It is delusional to think she would want to talk to you for money... Your attention is unwanted. Leave her alone. Link to post Share on other sites
ZA Dater Posted January 21, 2021 Share Posted January 21, 2021 I think this scenario does not work in these circumstances but lets look at the concept. Is it so bad, I actually do not think it is, OLD is monetized highly, effectively with most of the OLD platforms you pay to communicate with that person. More and more I think the way people interact and date is changing so from the perspective of paying to chat to someone I do not see much wrong with it, if the person is perhaps more interesting than the people you ordinarily interact with. Link to post Share on other sites
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