Leinad- Posted December 23, 2020 Share Posted December 23, 2020 I never thought I would end up asking this on a forum but I'm not sure where else to go. I have been talking with to my long-distance partner for a while. But lately, it feels like im the only one keeping the conversation going. I know it's almost Xmas and that they are spending this time with their family and that is understandable. But this has been going on for a while previous to this. I feel that once our current conversation draws to a close, I should just "leave the ball in their court" so to speak. This way I'll know if they are still into this partnership or if its time to talk about ending it. Does anyone else have any other advice? Link to post Share on other sites
FMW Posted December 23, 2020 Share Posted December 23, 2020 If you are the one initiating contact most of the time, stop. Back off and see what happens. You can't hold things together by yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Pumaza Posted December 23, 2020 Share Posted December 23, 2020 How old are you guys? Have you ever met him in real? If this is always or mostly online relationship, it can be that he losing nterest.since man love to see and expirience to feel more. Have a convo about it with him.Ask him what is on his mind. They say if its not temporary your partner is away,or with plans to unite soon, best is not to do LD. Because you may waste years on phone,while many stuff happening on the otherside.And you missing most of eachothers reallife and reality. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leinad- Posted December 23, 2020 Author Share Posted December 23, 2020 12 minutes ago, Pumaza said: How old are you guys? : Im 29 she is 26 Have you ever met him in real? : We were posted the the same Army unit for about two years. If this is always or mostly online relationship, it can be that he losing nterest.since man love to see and expirience to feel more. - It's mosly over the phone I travel to see her whenever I can but as she is posted in another state it's a two day trip just to get there. They say if its not temporary your partner is away,or with plans to unite soon, best is not to do LD. Unfortunatly LD is the only real option to us. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted December 23, 2020 Share Posted December 23, 2020 It sounds like she losing interest in the relationship. It might be time (perhaps after Christmas) to ask if she still sees a future together. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leinad- Posted December 23, 2020 Author Share Posted December 23, 2020 42 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: It sounds like she losing interest in the relationship. It might be time (perhaps after Christmas) to ask if she still sees a future together. Im thinking that's is what's happening and what I need to do. Link to post Share on other sites
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